Recently ended a twenty year very vanilla relationship, where doing it with the lights on was about as exciting as it got. Never really enough to satisfy my adventurous side. Looking for someone with a similar outlook on life, liberal mind and attitude who perhaps enjoys traveling, where the idea of a holiday is to explore a new country, rather than stay in an all inclusive hotel and never leave the complex I like to think of myself as pretty un-shockable, so whatever floats your boat in the bedroom, I’m probably up for it. I have had sexual relationships with both male and female previously. I suppose eventually I'm looking for a LTR whether it comes along next week or in five years, but I hope to have fun along the way. If you are looking for a masterful person in the bedroom, you’ve come to the wrong place as I’ve always felt more comfortable in the ‘bottom’ roll. I’ve tried and not much good at taking the lead. I have a somewhat subtle, sarcastic, wicked sense of humour, fun is important to me, I'd rather be smiling all the time than miserable:D I am a keen amateur photographer with lots of professional gear including studio lighting, so if you need your profile picture updating and are looking for something better than the usual mobile phone snap, just ask, happy to take snaps with no sexual contact if required. Other than photography, I enjoy walking in the countryside, although not really done a lot of that for many years.

My Ideal Person Someone who would rather watch the Discovery Channel than Eastenders and can name none of the cast of TOWIE or Geordie Shore!

Someone who goes on holiday to visit a country, not sit by the pool with a drink for two weeks. Who’s more interested in the local roman ruins than what’s on the cocktail menu.

Liberal and unshockable, perhaps a little (or maybe a lot) domineering in the bedroom but an equal the rest of the time.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Hard to say one fantasy, as that would indicate a favourite.
I have thoughts on all sorts and would be happy to try most
things. Also enjoy helping others fulfill theirs

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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