I would rather go out, do things, watch a movie at a theater or at home, sports. To get to know someone. If something seems interesting to me I'm up for it and once I open up a bit I'm a goofy out going person that knows when and when not to be goofy. Music is a big part of my life. From rock, reggaeton, jazz, everything. And I love it. Yo. In a guy I would have to say that honesty is something that is a must, and at times that can be the most attractive thing of a man. I'm not into the big fancy going out to expensive restaurants where a man thinks he can buy his way to a woman's heart.