A wise friend once told me, you'll never be happy in a relationship until you're happy with yourself first. I think that was great advice. My friends often wonder why I haven't had a boyfriend for a long time (since I'm so hot lol ;) and why I don't go out looking for someone. Well, there are lots of reasons but the main one is, I believe in soulmates, and I believe when my soulmate and I are both ready, we'll meet. I am a very decent guy with lots of love to give to one very special younger guy when I find him (please note gentlemen, I did say YOUNGER and I did mean it). I'm not interested in "getting laid" or partying every night. My soulmate is cute and sexy but he's also very intelligent, loving, cuddly, honest, has a great sense of humor (he'll laugh at my stupid jokes hehe), and he CARES. I'm not perfect and neither is he... but we'll be good to each other. (And he won't make fun of my silly hobbit hairdo... too much...) Also I hate to have to add a note like this, I wish it weren't necessary, but well, it is. I wish all you guys who are around my age or older the best of luck finding your mates. There's a lot of great guys out there, no doubt, and you all deserve love. But really fellas, learn to READ please. If you're anywhere near my age or older, please don't waste your time, I will not write back. Nothing personal. Love ya.

My Ideal Person Oh, you know who you are, don't you. You'll read my profile someday and think wow, he sounds kinda real, maybe I could love him and maybe he could love me. You're unique, you're different, but more than anything, you want someone to really care about you. Honesty is very important to you, and trust, and loyalty. I don't need someone very popular or athletic or even "cool." I need someone REAL, a boy who wants to be accepted and appreciated and loved for who he is. Physically I'm only attracted to younger, smaller guys, little or no body hair, no extra fat. Skinny is nice. If this sounds like you I hope you'll find me here and contact me. Hugs.