I have never done this before, but my one-track mind (or maybe I should say body) has a life of it's own and I believe my true nature is screaming to get out. I guess that comes from a stagnant former marriage. I am looking for fun and excitement with people I trust, respect and care for. I am concerned with safety and health. I am looking for physical strength and stamina along with fiery passion. Romance, "setting the stage" (candles, etc.), and music are wonderful enhancements. But I am also an inexperienced chicken-shit so we would need to start slow. Yummie! And for those who are interested in a relationship that grows into something more . . . if I ever marry again, it will be someone who lights ALL of me up like a christmas tree! There is only one way to accomplish that. If I have to tell you what that is . . . you are not the one! I take care of myself and exercise regularly. I seek the same in playmates. There must be chemistry and I am simply attracted to sexy, healthy people who are HWP. My floors are hardwood, if you know what I mean, and that, along with my powerful imagination, makes me much more sensitive and responsive. I am all about the drawn-out seduction, erotica, dance and fabulous sexy attire! I am an exhibitionist and voyeur at heart, but I might need a little encouragement getting there :o)

My Ideal Person I am into sex/porn books (otherwise known as Romance Novels) . . . purr. I go for the very graphically detailed ones. I certainly don't lack for fantasies. I've had some phone sex here and there but it just isn't enough and I'm tired of BOB (battery operated boyfriend). I envision myself on the dance floor wearing something extremely sexy, made sexier by my erotic movements, being watched by a tall, handsome, sexy stranger who isn't afraid to let me know he is watching. Coaxing me to perform for him. He is in the shadows where I can't see him. The lights start to dim and my heart starts to race as I can sense him coming near. His body contacts mine from behind as he takes my hands into his and continues the dance. His hands begin to roam and caress me,not too soft,not too rough. I can feel his erection against my bottom and he knows I am heating up. OK, I've gotta go finish this somewhere else . . . I would love to attend a party to watch and learn. Meet some people without feeling pressured. Build my self-confidence until I feel ready and comfortable to let go. But I am looking for friendship first, not to jump right into bed with someone I have just met. P.S. No married men cheating without the wife's knowledge. I don't think I have to define what that says about your character. Also, NO PICTURES . . . NO RESPONSE! And I do NOT do any type of long distance relationships - it is just way too much trouble than it is worth! Most of all - absolutely NO "flybys" "vacation" or "travel" sex.