I've been a bit of a self imposed recluse for a while now. I had to do a bunch of “me” stuff, went back to school, started a new job etc…I’ve basically been getting my house in order for the next stage of life. Now it's time to find someone to share it. I'm perfectly comfortable with the idea of some NSA engagements though, just to get the ball rolling as it were. I do typically have much better sex with someone that I know well, and connect with philosophically and intellectually. Since I'm not 21 anymore slam bam hook-ups don't hold much attraction for me. I really do need to connect at some level with anyone I'm intimate with. Don’t let that intimidate you though. I think most people are interesting, just that some are more interesting than others. I'm extremely open minded and have experienced a lot in life that most people haven't. I'm on my forth career. I've lived all over the country and seen, and done more than the average person you'll meet. I'm very independent. I'm a devoted guitarist and can spend all day with one of my six string girls, and not get bored. I also have a classic car. She's rather a demanding mistress, and you'll often find me covered in her bodily fluids. However as the say in TX, “I clean up good”. Between my hobbies and my job I don't have a lot of free time, but if we connect, I promise I'll carve out as much of it as possible to enjoy your company. I used to be a breast man, and then I was a butt man, and then I was a face man, and now I’m an eye man, so I must be on a quest for a soul mate. However if you are gifted in the other areas, you might just score bonus points.

My Ideal Person I like a woman who knows what she likes, and is able to describe it. When a woman isn't able to tell you at least the basics about her special interests then sex becomes too much like an endless treasure hunt.

I like a girl who's independent. If you have absolutely no life, and no interests and you are going to depend on me to be your sole form of entertainment, please click the button labeled Backspace. However if you're so independent that you think not returning phone calls or emails for weeks or months is SOP then please hit the same button. I don't think busy and thoughtless are synonymous.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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