I am a 35 year old Dominant male in NJ with a little over 12 years R/T experience. My interests as far as D/s and BDSM go are quite varried and although I do have a bit of a sadistic streak, I draw the line at blood, piercing, shitplay and ren. I am single looking to meet an interesting submissive who is not too far away in location, age, or ideas, to have new experiences with. Your level of experience does not matter. I am not looking for anything in particular as far as a relationship goes. Fun is just fine right now. If I did meet someone special though, I would be open to a 24/7 relationship, but not a live in situation right now. I am open to exploring the possibility in the future however. Besides D/s, I enjoy some of the more mundae things in life. Learning new things, camping, reading, watching movies, playing softball, bowling, watching football and baseball, going out for an evening on vanilla dates are even good from time to time. I hope to hear from you soon.

My Ideal Person Let me start by saying ideally I am looking for ALOT. This is my wish list for a submissive. She should be sane, intelligent, trustworthy, and friendly for starters. She should also be able to carry on a decent conversation and hopefully we will share interests beyond just D/S. She should have that special "click" with me were we can be alone and not say a word but still enjoy each others company. She should be submissive when the time is right, but also independent enough that her life isn't a mess. Experience is not an issue, but she should be willing to learn and explore. She should have a bit of a pain tolerance but not be a total masochist. If she were a Yankee fan, between 21-45, local (meaning not more than 2 hours away) and matches some of the other qualities listed above, I might be in heaven. If this is you, feel free to contact me. All polite replies will be answered.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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