Me: feisty, playful, independent, intelligent, witty, passionate, fairly adventuresome, practical, honest, caring, chic, open-minded, liberal, and able to laugh at myself. In public/at work, perfectly conventional, presentable, professional; away from work/in private, the creative, sensual, less-conventional, playful, passionate and naughty me comes out. Looking for some good old-fashioned fun of both the public and private varieties. Public = coffee, dinner, a walk on a beach, a hike in the woods, a movie, a long-weekend away from home.... you know.... fun! Private = well, see below! ;) Please note I'm not looking for a one-night stand .... "Going steady" would be just fine and I'm open to an LTR if that's where life takes us. Also, unless/until we agree to go exclusive, safe play only please! :) Finally, please understand it's all about the chemistry in person... if there is no chemistry, it don't work for me!

My Ideal Person You: intelligent, liberal, honest, able to support yourself, open-minded, have a sense of humor, caring/considerate. Preferably likes to travel, enjoys trying new things, and is equally comfortable ordering dinner at a fine restaurant or a beer in a dive bar.

On the more private side, I like a man who know what he wants and can be very, very explicit about telling about it. Basic hot sex is always welcome, but I enjoy a bit of kink at times as well. Intelligence and creativity a must... stimulate my mind and you'll stimulate my body even more!

A couple of final notes: (1) if you're married, living with someone, or otherwise emotionally committed to someone else, I'm not who you're looking for and (2) please don't go planning any detailed fantasies/scenarios for the first date... I prefer to let our meeting evolve on its own and see where it takes us!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Ask me again when we know each other....

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
depends on the fantasy...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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