This is so hard to do: I am a great guy (well, at least I think I am. Most people who meet me would agreee too). I have a great sense of humour, though it can be a bit obscure at times. I am 5'10 tall, weigh about 76Kgs. I am a NZ born Kiwi, and have lived in the same town all my life. I came out of a terrible relationship (I was getting abused) earlier in 2007, and have a shared custody arrangement with my 3 s. I love listening to rock music - particularly from the late 70's and 80's. I think the music of that decade rocks!!. Girls, I don't bark or bite. What harm can become of messaging me first, and asking me some questions?.

My Ideal Person I know that Passion isn't really the right place to look for the girl of my dreams but I'm going to try it anyhow.

I am looking to get into another long term permanent relationship, in which I'd love to have another child before I get too old to enjoy that child. You won't already have children. You would preferably live nearby so I can drop in often to have a coffee and a chat with you.

You would preferably be reasonably tall, and not overweight, have a bit of education behind you, and most definately a non-smoker. Also, a caucasean please.

As above - what harm can come from messaging me, and perhaps meeting for a coffee and a chat?. Hope to hear from you very soon.