It is complicated. Think of the Eagles g, "Lying Eyes" and you have a good idea what my situation is like. My wife had a stroke, 20 years ago, things never got to be the same again and i am a caregiver. These sites are really about the woman here, (AM, FB, etc.,) woman are in control, I know nothing i can say will magically make you want to meet me. It is a Chemistry thing, I understand that. I am looking for some joy in my life before it gets to late. I would like to meet a FWB. I stress we would need to be friends. Unless I knew you before here, I guarantee nothing will happen on our first meeting, i am not looking for a one night conquest. We would understand each other enough to know that we are helping each other with the desires that go missing when bad things happen to good people. I am not a man looking for conquest or think of myself as a gift to woman. I desire the intimacy of a woman, and the kindness of a friend. If you think we can meet on common ground, lets arrange a date, coffee, or even a movie that we can enjoy and talk about over a small dinner. I work for a major airline, travel is easy for a dinner in NY, LA, London:7? Have you seen the movie "Same Time Next Year" with Alan Alda?

My Ideal Person Most likely you, send me an email and tell me more about you. I am a great listener.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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