WOW !!! ... I really NEED to update my profile and come up with a new introduction pretty soon . Half of the title wont fix me anymore soon because , I'm Happy to say, I had "Bariatric Surgery"(the weight loss surgery on 9/11/07)just a few months ago & its going great & Very Happy to add ... I've lost a total of 55+ pounds and with my exercise it still keeps coming off . Its working out great and keeps me busy too. (thats one of the reasons why I havent been online. Have to run real fast.... I'll finish the rest when I get back .... ********************** FYI... Just so you know..."BARBIE" , does not live here! But, I'm a pretty "BBW" (BBW DON'T stand for "Big Breasted Women" either. Just so you men know) & I'm your typical down-to-earth woman, always treating people with respect and honesty. I like to have friends who I can get physical with. I've always been good at making plans and following through on them. I prefer to wait until I'm at ease before I jump into something. I want to try all the things I've always wanted to do. Experience-wise, I've done a few things, but I want to do a lot more. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. If you contact me please include a face pic. I'm the type who's rarely the first to make a move, but once things are moving, I'm really something else. I'm a regular girl, a little on the quiet side, but I thaw fairly quick once I get to know you. but, I'm easily the best click you'll make today. On Sunday afternoons I like to read the newspaper (Well, the sale ads...giggles /shhh, don't tell)in bed. Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it becomes serious later on, I won't complain. I get along best with people who aren't afraid to call a spade a spade. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I want to find a friend who's also friendly on a physical level. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. Feel free to drop me a line if you're bi or bi-curious. I'm anxious to try new things. P.S. Oh, BTW... Also, I'm not into "Head Games" (or) "Drama"...I'm pass that age. I'm more into friendship with real people that can - "Just Mean , ... What You Say and Just Say ,...What You Mean !" plus , its a good start for a friendship too. Thank you !

My Ideal Person ..First off, I will tell you what I'm "NOT" looking for ... I'm "NOT" into "One Night Stands" So, if thats what your looking for then please don't waste your time or mine & I'm "NOT" looking to play house either. Maybe have a good/close friend to hang around with, chat on the phone alittle at times here and their. I'm not into going out 24/7 (early 20's I did that & got it out of my system) I'm more of a "home-body" these days and I like that but, dont get me wrong ... I do too at times need my "time" also,and take a little break myself & enjoy my "time" too.(when I get things running smooth. (Thanks)
.... Now , what I would like to find somebody & have a Friendship, trust, good chemistry, sensuality, Good communication, a willingness to listen, Honesty, RESPECT ,
mutual support, passionate, sensual and enjoy sex, good personality with a sense of humor. Someone
that is open minded is a plus too. playing around being silly too. Hmmm, dont know ... Maybe thats too big of an order these days ??? (btw... their is lots of stuff I haven't done but, I have an open mind to most and if I don't do some of the stuff I have thought about that I would like to try , its fine with me too. I look at it this way (the 3sum's and being with another female) ....... if it happen , it happen .. if it don't , it don't.)

( Wanted to add ... for those people who take time out and send me "Winks" and add me to their "Hotlist" also, I would like to "Thank You" and How sweet of you too. I would like to reply back with a wink as a "Thank U" back to those that take time to send them but, I cant cause I'm a standard member at this time. I just didn't want anyone thinking or I was being rude for no reply back. Thanks again for your "winks" and so on .. Take Care All ! Have Fun K. oxox )

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Love to Play for hours- alnight long too .

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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