I enjoy making friends and meeting new people (who doesn't), but definitely not looking for a long term romantic relationship. Long term friends are fine and friends with benefits can work too (hey I am a guy after all LOL), but I just got out of a 2 year relationship and I don't think it's in anyones best interest for me to jump into anything like that anytime soon. I know how to have fun and I have a great sense of humor (I'm not really funny but I know when to laugh when someone tells a joke). I'm also easy on the eyes and fairly smart. Did I mention I invented the wheel and electricity and taught DiVinci how to paint (ok so I try to be witty sometimes). I think most happiness and confidence in life comes from having a REALISTIC goal (and a plan of short term goals to get you there) and achieving them. You see the goal itself at the starting point gives you something to look forward to, and this makes you happy, because it fills you with the single most precious commodity know to man....HOPE (I know I sound like a motivational speaker now). This hope is what creates happiness. As you get closer to that goal (through work and completing other short term goals leading to the long term goal) your confidence builds. You may hit a bump in the road and things don't always go to plan (which can frustrate the hell out of you), but if you are able to move onto the next step and complete it, the frustration fades and the confidence continues to build. Remember to make the goals realistic though. If you make an UN-REALISTIC goal then you will most likely keep hitting bumps in the road and the frustrhation will turn to either anger at the world (Why is this happening to me) or yourself (I'm useless because I couldn't complete my goal). I had gotten stuck in the grind of life for a while and felt empty thinking that the rest of my life was going to be the same. I had to change something and formulate some sort of plan. I had always wanted to move to Miami and had come very close right before I met my ex, so I decided that was going to be my goal and HOPE filled me and the emptiness I had felt was no longer there. I immediately began to formulate a plan leading up to that goal. Granted I did hit some bumps along the road of my plan (O.K. it was really more like the pothole riddled FDR drive after a really bad Winter), but I kept my eye on the prize (which kept that hope alive) and I improvised when needed. Now I'm living in miami (although its been less than a week), but seeing my goal achieved and I feel great. Now I'll take some time to celebrate the achievement of my goal and start working toward the next goal (A JOB). The future after that is filled with uncertainty, but at least it isn't filled with monotony. I'm looking at the uncertainty with a mixture of 80% Excitement and 20% Fear, but that is definitely better than looking to the future with 100% dread. Well if you wanna know more drop me a line. Most of the chat programs call me djmuzzy76