Experienced, considerate guy one of whose great enjoyments in life is pleasuring women. Although stocky I keep fit, workout about three times a week and have done a few half marathons. Keeping fit is good for sexual stamina! Generally easy going I can be playfully dom and am happy to indulge in BDSM and warm the cheeks, or more, if that's what a lady wants. Sure I like to have a good time myself but my aim is genuine mutual pleasure. I love making, or helping somebody else making, women cum - the more times the better. Gushers OK with me! Happy doing whatever the lady likes to satisfy her and am willing to experiment. However it's not just the sex, I enjoy meeting new people and the social side of swinging. Although happy with 1 on 1 I have discovered that I get a real buzz from and prefer threesomes or moresomes.

My Ideal Person A sexy, fit and 'responsive' str8 or bi lady, sub would be nice, on her own or, preferably, a couple who want to meet a discreet and discerning gentleman interested in meeting their needs. I don't consider myself kinky but really like the feel of leather so if you've got a sexy pair of boots or leather wear that's fine by me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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