IF YOU ARE OLDER THAN MID-30s, I WILL CONTACT YOU FIRST IF I AM INTERESTED (hint: I probably am not). NO OFFENSE, BUT I PREFER TO MEET PEOPLE CLOSE TO MY OWN AGE. I can't afford to renew my account for the time being. Send me a message and we can find a way to chat. My lover, companion, and best friend of more than ten years, and wife for four, left me last year for some guy she just met. I am heartbroken and vulnerable, but trying to pick myself back up and take advantage of my newfound independence. I am looking for local, down-to-earth young men, women, couples, or groups: straight, bi, or bi-curious. I'm interested in hooking up with anyone who feels compatible. I work a lot, so my free time is limited, but I do travel to the Utica, Syracuse and Watertown areas somewhat frequently, so if you're in those areas, feel free to consider me!

My Ideal Person Someone who could be friends would be preferred. I like hanging out with friends, but have so few in the area whom I see regularly. I'd like to meet someone who shares more interests than just sex; someone with whom I can hang out, go out to eat, see a movie, play video/board/card games, or whatever.

I'm looking for females first and foremost, though I may consider select males if I feel a connection. Couples and groups, feel free to contact me for straight or bi encounters!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being in a room full of people having sex… guys, girls,
straight, gay, and bi… no fear, no shame, no "holes"
barred.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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