Note:
If you're going to send me an email telling me I don't belong on a site like this, please don't bother. You're wasting your time and mine. You don't know squat about me, so you have no idea where I belong or don't belong. If I'm not YOUR cup of tea, fine. You wouldn't be mine, either. But I know for a fact that there are at least as many decent men on this site as there are sleazy players, and I know how to find the decent ones.

Now... back to business:
I enjoy chatting and emailing. I like finding new friends all over the world. I'm a good listener, can write a coherent email, and have a pretty wicked, warped sense of humor.

I'm self-employed, so my free time is scarce. But check out my other profile... Cubby_Mom ... if you really want to know more about ME.

My Ideal Person: What am I looking for?
Someone who is intelligent and has a sense of humor, just like I would want in a flesh-and-blood man. I'd like to get to know people who can carry on intelligent conversations about a variety of things, not just sex. I, myself, can talk about everything from football to politics.

Please... don't invite me to join your network unless we've exchanged at least one email or met in a chat room. I'm afraid I find that a bit rude. I feel badly when I have to decline your invitation, but I am rather protective of who gets listed as my "friend".

The people in my network are mostly people I chat/email with on a regular basis. I like them, and I think they like me. I can't possibly know if we would have that same connection unless we've exchanged emails or chatted in the Love Doctors room a few times.

Despite the nature of this site, I'm not interested in casual sex. Did you read that? Did you understand it? I'm not interested in men who are "coming to Vegas and wanna hook up". I have no interest in married men. "Separated" is "still married". "Attached" is the same as "married" in my book. I'm selfish that way -- I don't share my man - ever.

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Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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