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rm_cutewife31
2 Comments
Nervous about watching wife get fucked

We're getting ready to meet another couple for the first time. I'm pretty sure this is going to end up with sex between her husband and my wife. I can't wait to see another guy's cock slide into her cute pale pussy and hear her moan, but I'm really nervous about it and so is she. I wanted it and now I'm nervous. I don't want her to be nervous. I just want her to enjoy herself and let it out. Any advice?


Chuck3907
558 Comments
long distance but hey threesomes are so much funs

Biker4pleasure13
68 Comments
Do you live in Vegas? I'm out there a couple times a year.

rm_dosage17
16 Comments
im in LA, valley to be exact. 24 hung m ready to hang out whenever. email me here and let me know

XtremE8100
826 Comments
Relax / have a few drinks (not many though ), get to know the other couple and you'll be just fine...

Good luck!

seeya69
2842 Comments
Agree. Just relax and let nature take it's course. You'll both know if it is for you once the ice is broken. It's a very hot thing doing it for the first time and belive me, it only gets better as time goes on. Nothing is better than watching my wifes pussy envlope a nice large cock and it turns my cock into a rock.

JustHrnyM
215 Comments
Just sit back and relax....and enjoy watching her enjoy a nice hard cock sliding into her eager pussy....you will be so turned on watching her enjoying another man's cock know you are there encouraging her on and see will see that when your cock gets nice and big....I enjoy watching a hubby as I am pounding his hot wife's eager pussy..and love it if he comes over and starts to enjoy the view up close and if he feels up to it join in on the action....it will make her eager and ready to please more and more for you.....

cnyhotandnasty
277 Comments
bttrfly...i had the same problem. I contacted support and told them it was a bug and know I think we can access it again.

OCHotwife
5 Comments
I didn't want my husband to watch the first time we had sex with another couple. We did it in separate rooms. By the time he did watch me we had had sex with our new lovers at least a dozen times and were now very comfortable with them. If you or she are nervous try separate bedrooms at first. It's actually very erotic knowing your spouse is doing the same thing just down the hall. For me it made crossing that line a lot easier and in fact I knew it was coming and was actually very excited about it. Ask you wife, you might be surprised.

rm_bbc4swformwf
11 Comments
To: cutewife:
I joined this group just I could put my 2 cent in on this thread. As a single male that has played mostly with couples. I find it easier to let your wife lead the way. I find it easier to talk with the husband to find out what she likes and find out if she is shy or not. I also like to find out from the husband if I will need o be the aggressor. I also like to flirt (aggressively) before anything happens. I always reserve the right to stop the playing at anytime for any reason and you and your wife should reserve that right. I saw a response above pulling out at the last minute is bad form in this lifestyle and that is so true; however going through with something you feel strongly against is bad form for life no matter what your lifestyle.
When possible (husband will be there or play) I let her start with her husband or boyfriend where she is comfortable. I like to watch and then I will start lightly petting her. Strip down get my own erection going (if not already there). And when she is ready she will guide me where she wants me. I like or my favorite is when she is giving her a hubby or boyfriend a blowjob on the couch I strip down and watch the show once she grabs part of me we just let nature take it’s course and I just hold on for the ride.

Innocenthotsex2
747 Comments
Being nervous is normal, especially for the first time or even when it's the first time she gets fucked by a new bull. Just think about how great it's going to be...how hot she'll look with his big cock hrusing in and out of her pussy and how she'll know that you're going to be watching her get off on another man's big cock. Awesome!

FNGRLCKNGD2
94 Comments
This must be something that you both have talked over and you both agreed to venture out with your sex life.
Our first time was with a couple we met on vacation. We hit it off right away but waited until we returned home. My wife received their phone call and they asked us over for dinner.
well the wine was chilled, the dinner was outstanding and then they wanted to know if we wanted to join them in their hot tub.
We changed into our suits, and proceded to enjoy the evening with playful flirting and then our hostess said she would remove her top if my wife would. Off came the tops and the rest is history. I still can picture his fat cock sliding in and out of my wifes pussy while I fucked his wife.
That was 28 years ago and we still meet for Saturday dinners with them. We heave many friends now we see as a group and we owe it all to that first night.
Go and enjoy, we did and never looked back.

case20195
83 Comments
You will love it. Let us know how it goes.

creampieeater50
24 Comments
Kepp telling her how hot it make you to see her get hot when he slips his cock into her they love this. Also open her pussy lips for her so he can slip his cock in. This tell her you are ok with this.

bad2thebone4u
17 Comments
Its normal to be nervous. Just relax, sit back and enjoy the show. Don't show her that you are nervous. Keep her excited and tell her you can't wait to start.

HwnnHaoule
8 Comments
it's normal to be nervous. i think we have the nervous excitement before the guest gets there. this weekend we hooked up with a male playmate from the site. wife told me to go pick out something sexy for her to wear. gave her three options. all very sexy and covered nothing. she choose the bikini with chains. as we sat and waited for the guy to show we had some shots and drank. the time came for him to be at our place. nothing. so we began fucking. as we were fucking on the couch she saw legs walking up to the front door through a window by the door. she quickly dismounted. i put my shorts on and answered the door. i invited him in the living room. she was trying to get her chained panties on. i told her don't bother. grabbed her and kissed her. told her to get busy with him. no small talk. just start sucking dick. she said ok and the fun began. i watched her take his cock and begin sucking. ass up, face down sucking. i watched for a little while. told her to ride his cock. as she began riding all nervousness was gone. complete turn on. i told her i was going to step out and have a smoke. i told her to fuck him good while i was out. as i was out side i could hear the moaning from her. that got me really turned on. we i came back in he was pounding her doggie style. i watched a little longer but then couldn't hold back. decided she needed to have both of us. she did great!!!!

seduceuslow
11 Comments
That is my desire to watch my wife take a huge cock and ride him wildly...We both want it so bad but need someone to help us get there!!!

rm_DickBlack111
104 Comments
The nervous couple:
You don't have to have sex just because you are pretty sure it will happen.
Try having a couple of drinks and switching partners in your sitting arrangement. You don't have to fondle just sit as if the person you are with is your spouse. There should be plenty of purely accidental touching and eventually nurturing contact.
No need to start kissing or anything. All four of you will become comfortable with seeing your partner in close quarters with your new friends. Experienced swingers should pick upon your pace and give you adequate airspace to become comfortable with this sitting arrangement.
Be physical with the same sex of your new friends. I don't mean have sex with them unless you want to.

The Men:
Tap your new buddy on the arm and take him into the kitchen to grab a couple of beers. Put your hand on his shoulder and tell him your nervous and you need to work your way into this.
Especially for men you need to break that 18 inch personal space barrier before you can trust him with your loved one.
If I can't feel comfortable shaking someone hand or a pat on the back.
He isn't going to touch anyone I love.

Men rarely touch each other outside of formal greetings like handshakes. Think about it how often do you make physical contact with another man in a month? Maybe ten? Including A best fiend maybe 20? throw in the accidental contact 30? You could easily go a week without contact.
The only straight exceptions are athletes.

The women:
Women seem to have no problem touching each others clothes hands hair whatever. They seem to be physically much more comfortable with each other early on that men are.
I could be wrong... I've never been a woman.

Looking forward:
You need to get past the emotional effect of seeing your partner with someone else and develop a trust that everyone will go home physically and emotionally intact. By this I mean nobody lost a partner to a bigger dick or a better blow job.
Swinging is about the freedom to have adult fun with friends of your choosing. It is not about hi-jacking your friends partner emotionally or otherwise. Swinging is an adult privilege and it should be treated as such.

We have chosen to protect our loved ones at some level and seeing them with an outsider gives us all anxiety no matter how long we've been swinging. Once we see the outsider as a nurturing protector of our loved one we feel safe enough to trust them both in a sexual situation.

Helpful hint for timid:
It is important to dedicate a ton of attention to your new partner but don't ignore you original partner.

This helps to soothe anxiety on many levels.

Caution:
Few things suck worse that one of the four friends locking up on what's happening to their original or their new partner and ignoring everyone else. That goes for the sex the conversations, the cuddling or anything else. Balance is the word
It's just not fair to anyone in the group when your feeling each other out.

Have fun be safe and relax....
Do it right and you won't regret it...

Dick Black

rm_DickBlack111
104 Comments
Or?
You could rip each others clothes of and fuck with your sock on!

You'll be fine. Keep us updated on how it went

Dick Black

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