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Why does it have to be so difficult? 13/10/2003
In everyday life, it's easy for someone to say "No",
or "No Thank You" in just about any given situation.
Why, then, is it so difficult for someone to respect those
words when you're behind closed doors. In personal
experience(s), we've run into a few pushy people.
I think it's a common thing really. However, those
people have completely respected our wishes. Out at a club,
it takes a ...
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Response to Be Nice Take The Time......... 13/10/2003
Are you kidding me?!?!?!?!?! Saying that anyone on this
site must be responsible and to respond to someone is absolutely
ridiculous!!!!! We respond to everyone that takes the
time to send us something, it's called courtesy, but
we're not obligated or responsible for making sure
someone doesn't get their feelings or pride hurt on
a swinger's site. While your article may not pertain
directly ...
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Polite in the reply 12/10/2003
Some ladies do have the curtesy to reply even with a "not
interested" note. Thank you; I do appreciate it.
I reply to everyone who writes to me, eventually.
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Now and then, the reply is... rude. Such as "F*** off!!!"
or "You are swinging without your wife? That's
how people die!" One lady berated me for sending a
fantasy based on the interests she listed combined with
my own ...
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My Boss' Sex Deflowered 12/10/2003
I was deflowered by my boss the third month I joined this
company. I was 20 then, with no sex experience at all because
my family was very strict with me. I remembered working
very late that night, when my boss called me into the conference
room. He locked the door behind my back and I was surprised.
Then he come up to me, and hold me around my waist. He whispered
in my ears that my ...
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Re: I wish I could say "no thanks"without losing him!!... 10/10/2003
If your partner can’t see what swinging is doing to you,
he must be either remarkably unperceptive or just pretending
he hasn’t noticed. He sounds very insensitive to me. I appreciate
that you just don’t want to lose him. However the hard truth
is that you must let him know how you feel. If he fails to respond
in a suitably sensitive manner, then I’m afraid you should
dump him. ...
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If two is company.....Is three a crowd? 26/9/2003
I am writing this in response to some articles regarding
whether or not to allow a third person into the relationship,
whether it be for a one time thing or an occassional repeat
and how to tell your significant other no if your not interested.
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First of all, I can only speak through my experience and
would like to state that it's going to be different
for everyone. With ...
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Re: Move out and draw fire 24/9/2003
I suggest meeting in person ahead of time to mutually agree
that all parties are satisfied. If not, we should be able
to enjoy a couple of drinks and politely part ways. I feel
that this is much more respectful to everyone involved
and you probably won't even have to block them out.
Perhaps you may have made a real friend that you'd like
to hear from, from time to time.
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Don't judge too fast 20/9/2003
There is this article in this category about replying.
I strongly agree on that one, only I am not so naief to think
they didn't get the message in the first place.
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What is the use of putting and add here and not responding?
If you get to many, block yourself, otherwise be friendly
and reply.
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Also don't forget you can't judge a book by the
cover. You never ...
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Please be honest with people... 18/9/2003
I know that there are many out there that need not read this,
but there are too many that should read it and learn something
from it. I would like to make an observation and interject
my opinion about how people respond or more so do not respond
to emails on this site and many others like it. If a person
takes time to write an email to someone is it not polite to
say no thank you if there ...
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Ladies, be assertive! 15/9/2003
... Oft times do I find myself making moves that cause discomfort
to a lady friend, but I would learn to not do such things around
her were she not afraid to tell me that is bothers her.
... I know, I heard it all before, a lady is afraid to tell
her guy friend what she doesn't like because she's
scared she'll drive him away or make him angry. But
listen up, if such minor things can send ...
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What's the big deal? 30/6/2003
Who cares if someone doesn't get back to you. In principle
it should be their loss. If you use your imagination in your
mail and try to be noticed and try to be human and speak to
them like they are a person it may warrant a response. What
woman wants to respond to a picture of a nine inch dick? Maybe
some do but I doubt it. Bear in mind most men will send something
to almost any woman ...
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RE: this is funny to me 23/4/2003
Your argument about "immorality" is total
nonsense.
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Let me get this right, you meet with people after only veiwing
one pic?
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We answer all mail unless it is obvious that the sender was
completely inapropriate in that they are way, way to heavy
or it is otherwise really apparent they didn't read
or profile. (Like if the wife is 200 lbs, or the mail is from
a ...
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Move out and draw fire 17/4/2003
I have on several occasions been "deceived"
by women on this site. By deception I mean that their photos
were taken in positions which made them look fairly comely.
When meeting the ploy was obvious. What to do? You take care
of business (Whatever you discussed) and then move out
and draw fire. That is to say: Don't insult her, Endure
the evening, Never contact her again, Put her on all of ...
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I ask for a reason 31/3/2003
Online etiquette is absolutely ridiculous, people are
rude and obnoxious anyway, let alone self centered, Ive
been online for a very long time, the chat rooms are "issue
rooms" people that sit in front of a machine to talk
to other people are simply ridiculous with very serious
issues about communication and life in general. I grew
tired of it years ago and found myself sucked back into it ...
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Response to 19/2/2003
It would be nice if we women could respond with a "no thanks"
and have that be it. BUT, I know in my experience, that lots
of guys don't take that as the end. They write back, saying
things like "Why don't you think we are compatible" or "Give
me another chance, you won't be sorry", etc...etc... It
is especially annoying when it is apparent the guy has not
even READ your profile first. ...
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in response to 'not only women' 9/2/2003
I believe the 'secret code' is she didn't have sex on the
first date.
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It's the old addage, slut in the bedroom; mom in the kitchen.
If you don't agree to sex on the first date you are a prude.
If you DO agree to sex on the first date you are a slut, they
think (yes, i did see wheels turning once) if she's 'putting
out to me' who else is she putting out with? and then they ...
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Women need to decline more respectfully 15/1/2003
I've just been on this site a few months and I must say
that in such a consolidated amount of time, I have learned
how to respectfully say 'thanks but no thanks'. It's great
to get so much response to my profile, but can be too
overwhelming at times. I feel it is important to check in
with my Passion email every day so that it doesn't pile up and
get out of control. I look at it like ...
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