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The world according to Xiara
 
as much of my mind as I can spare at the time . . .
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Cold feet? chicken heart?
投稿日:2008年 9月 6日 8:09 am
最終更新日時:2008年 9月 27日 8:28 am
3746 回の閲覧

There are those who will contrive, it seems, to waste your time. Or perhaps they've just not got the nerve.

Some will profess to desire all kinds of things but, frankly, don't really, or are too scared to confront their fantasies.

We’ve heard these complaints over and over again, usually by men. But men can be guilty of it too . . . contrary to what they’d have you believe.

I've met my share of them.

Sometimes, something pops up at the last minute. That’s bloke-speak for “I'm chickening out”, I think. The more decent ones will do this before hand.

Some will just not show up; some you'll never hear from again.

If it's a couple, the 'missus' will come down with some mystery illness. It's always the missus' fault.

There's nothing wrong with saying that you only want sexy chat and webcam fun, if that is indeed as far as you want to take it.

But it's only fair to be respectiful of people's time and not waste it!

Tell me your timewaster stories. I'm sure they'll provide a chuckle or two.

x
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Stimulation
投稿日:2008年 9月 4日 9:25 am
最終更新日時:2008年 9月 5日 9:53 am
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Someone suggested, in response to my last post, that women blog because they need mental stimulation.

Recently, I found myself mentally stimulated through a chat I was having with a fellow AFFer.

The brain is such an important errogenous zone for me, that in a totally non-sexual conversation, I became extremely aroused, and so did he.

It then dawned on me that, despite having had some fascinating meets through Passion, the element that always seemed to be a missing was mental stimulation.

And it's not the same as emotional stimulation. You can have that without any of the intellectual stimulation I mean.

Oh well . . .

X
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Women's area?
投稿日:2008年 9月 1日 7:27 am
最終更新日時:2008年 9月 8日 1:34 pm
3903 回の閲覧

Men on this site outnumber the women by about 15 to 1. But here in the blog section, there seems to be far more female than male bloggers.

Is that just how it seems to me? Or is that how it is?

If it is so, then why is that?

What makes women blog more than men? Is it because we're looking for a tad bit more than sex?

x
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ready
投稿日:2008年 8月 27日 4:03 am
最終更新日時:2008年 9月 1日 7:32 am
3646 回の閲覧

I'm ready to meet some new guys now.

But I can't seem to get the instant messenger to work and my limited membership means I can't find any new guys in the search

What's a girl to do.

x
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bad timing
投稿日:2008年 8月 24日 8:22 am
最終更新日時:2008年 9月 26日 10:52 am
3805 回の閲覧

why is it that I'm horniest during my time of month.

right now i'm craving cock like there's no tomorrow . . . but alas I can't even masturbate as I don't want to deal with the mess!

x
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What am I up to?
投稿日:2008年 8月 20日 1:26 pm
最終更新日時:2008年 8月 23日 3:25 pm
3692 回の閲覧

Not much. Had a few meets recently - nothing to set the world afire.

But I've been kinda laying low for the last week or so. I'm not really feeling sexual and have been focussing on other aspects of life - spiritual and metaphysical stuff.

I'm feeling quite content as I've been enjoying life as well.

x
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so I came back
投稿日:2008年 8月 5日 1:16 am
最終更新日時:2008年 8月 20日 2:29 pm
3688 回の閲覧

why?

Because the circumstances are right and I won't let the opportunity I have now go to waste.

Exciting times ahead, I think.

x
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taking a break
投稿日:2008年 8月 2日 5:01 am
最終更新日時:2024年 5月 26日 7:8 pm
3525 回の閲覧

something tells me that I should take a break from this site. So that's what I'm doing.

I don't know how long it will last - could be a couple of days or a couple of weeks.

Chances are, I'll be back though.

x
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polyamory
投稿日:2008年 7月 31日 12:08 pm
最終更新日時:2008年 9月 14日 9:54 am
3622 回の閲覧

Was joking with a 'potential' today and commented that 'scratching my itch' was probably close to a full time job. He suggested I employ a team to do it. My response to that was that 2 men and a woman would make a suitable team.

This conversation led me to thinking about polyamory. It's something that I have pondered quite a bit on in the past. And I do consider that it could be something that would work for me.

As a bisexual woman, it would be nice to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds in a situation where there's mutual love and respect to/from all parties involved.

So I think it's definitely worth even more thought . . .

x
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the weather
投稿日:2008年 7月 28日 7:06 am
最終更新日時:2008年 7月 28日 8:36 am
3631 回の閲覧

It's been hot these last few days . . .

And that means that there's been lots of bods exposed to the elements. And I have been enjoying the sight, for the most part.

I do like a bit of sightseeing and there's a lot of talent out there to be seen.

But I kinda feel left out. It's like "I want one of those". I'm tired of window-shopping . . . looking but not touching.

But I think that my turn to touch will come very very soon . . .
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my ideal
投稿日:2008年 7月 23日 12:01 pm
最終更新日時:2008年 7月 23日 3:43 pm
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I've decided to write a description of what my ideal man would be like . . . not just for sex but for more.
It's not going to be easy.

Age: He'd probably be a bit (5 years or less) younger than I am. But he could be a bit older too . . . just youthful in look and spirit.

Sexual orientation: He has to like women first and foremost!

Location: Near me. Someone I could see as often as I need to.

Marital Status:Single. This is a must!

Height: Tall. I like tall men. 6ft and over.

Body Type: Athletic. or normal. or slim just not fat.

Smoking: I'm a non-smoker; so should he.

Drinking: light/social drinker

Education: intelligent enough to be able to have conversations on most topics. Doesn't need to be in an academic sense, though.

Race: any

Have Children: No

Want Children: No

Male Endowment: 6-7inches would do. I think if you have good technique, it's more important. Also I love oral so if that's where your skills lie, then I'd be happy.

Circumcised: would be nice but it's not necessary as long as you're clean.

Personality-wise, he's confident and can inspire confidence in others. He's friendly and easy to get along with. He's adventurous and up for trying new things - new foods, new places, new ideas.
He loves to travel. He appreciates a wide variety of music. He has wide and varied interests - from sports to art to flora and fauna to astronomy.

Hmm . . . there's a lot more I could add, I suppose.
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dry spell
投稿日:2008年 7月 20日 11:08 am
最終更新日時:2008年 7月 31日 2:31 pm
3666 回の閲覧

I just can't seem to get laid these days . . .
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