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 Ok I'm 41 and really starting to explore new things. I was quite busy for the last ten years getting married having kids. living the norm. But now all the things that i always wanted to do but did nt because I was living the norm has been haunting me. I always wanted tattoos and now serious thinking of piercing my nipples. Always thinking of how to heighten my sex. I think that as I get older I'm missing out on such wonderful stuff. And not be able to do it anymore. But now My problem is I'm not 21 anymore and things have gone south for me. I've gain lots of weight that I'm not comfortable with. My tits are still nice looking but not perky like before I had kids. so now I an so ready to explore my bi-curious side, (of course with my husband of 20 yrs.) But very nervous cause I'm not where I would like to be I'm not saying skinny Cause that would never happen but not as much weight as I have. My husband says that I'm sexy but that's my husband. So I'm thinking of going to a swingers club. tried different dating sites but It's just the unknown?? How do you really know what these women are really like? Do they have diseases? I don't really have a lot of time to try to meet people in casual places. ( have younger kids that require babysitters) And planning meets are almost impossible. I work nights and weekend my husband works days. And then there all the realty of no money bills over my head, And the kids that's a whole entity of itself. Where do I find the time??? Well I'm trying to but now its hard to try and meet pp le. I'm usually very laid back and let things happen. (Oh and also I'm afraid to have strangers at my house since I have kids.) I know I'm rambling on and on. But I'm so excited to do this and want to make it happen but a little nervous. I think sex is awesome and we should do as much as possible and anyway we can get off is a bonus. I hate having to hide my face on my profile so people I know won't recognize me. When I was younger (and I'm kicking myself in the ass for it )I wanted to be a sex therapist like Dr. Ruth. So now that I told you sort of my story I will keep blogs on my New journeys into enjoying life through sex!!! Just hope I can fulfill all of my fantasies. |
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wow I really would love to meet a girl????
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Posted:Aug 21, 2012 6:41 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2013 2:12 am
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I wish I knew how to approach girls or women? You would think I would since I am one? I have a women who comes into my work and I wait on her at the same time wondering if she would have my first experience with a girl? Or if she likes girls? I really just don't know how to flirt with other women? I try but I don't want them to think I'm coming on to them if there not bi. I don't have many women friends lately. My best friend died of cancer a while ago. having , work at night and a husband sometimes its really hard to have friends. As I get older I can't stand most of my friends. I know that sounds horrible but the women are either drunks, bitter cause thier sex life sucks or think they are just to good for anything! Really at my age (41) I can't complain but am very glad I have a husband who loves sex and understands my desire to be with another women. Of course he finds extremly hot and can't wait. He also knows were testing limits and what we want? For my first time he will watch but not touch unless I invite him!!! We've set some rules just so it doesnt upset anyone of us and we can enjoy the experience.
I would love to know how to make this happen when your juggling and work? I so want it!! I wish there was a swinggers club around south Jersey??? Or a place where you can go and hang out with a bunch of the same people maybe at a tiikki bar or coffee bar????Can anyone help. I'm starting to loose hope? njfornsafun.
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Posted:Aug 16, 2012 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2013 1:16 am
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Well it was a spur of the moment date. I was quite pleased. Friday night, I have to work till 11 and it's usually the busiest night at work. I don't have a lot of friday night fun. My husband and I only get the chance to go out together once in a blue moon. (Once a year for his company holiday party.) My are getting older (10 and  . But that is the true reason we haven't really gone out on dates especially ones where the sleep out for the night. Before we had our wonderful , My husband and I had lots of great sexual experience. It was amazing. My friend was a stripper so we used to go pick her up and hang out for a while. At that time I was bi-curious but really wasn't ready to share my husband. I was very trusting of him but only went to levels of letting him have lap dances (Which I was still young and a little jealous) at the club. Well then we had . we had great sex but not as often as we should. We were both tired and worn out. Well ten years have passed and sex gets fewer and fewer. Talking to a lot of other parents, You find the wife is gaining weight and is really not interested any more. The husband is cool when he is fed and really can go hide from the rest of the world cause he's usually stressed, overweight and horny.
well now that all that is said and done. I turn 40 and extremely horny. I love sex but we could never get out of our rut. So then I go and play on computer. Knew my husband watched porno and whacked off. but didn't know he was flirting and talking to people on line like everyday. Not actually cheating but it hurt me that I couldn't satisfy him as much as he needed. then I asked him about a few things like the web cam and chat rooms. Well his answer was 'you know I'm a flirt and really never let you on my secret because I thought you would get mad. " Well I really love my husband and as a wife need to not get mad but wanted to know what that crazy web cam does and how the chatting and flirting with people when your married but won't cheat. ( Trust) OH MY GOODNESS!!! I forgot how awesome the world of sex can be!! Now my husband and I are looking to find a women to give me a fantasy of being with a girl. Our sex life has increased to limits that we don't have anymore! I don't masturbate more then I have sex unless he is there. I think we have had more sex in the last two months thaninthe last ten years. ( That's sad!!!!)
Now all of a sudden Friday night no ! My husband is not sleeping when I come home from work! Well hot dam lets do something fun. He said a couple of friends were out at a strip club and he was thinking of going??? Well in my mind I said ooooh yes lets go and have some fun. He was a little surprised but really surprised when I bought him a lap dance from one of the girls. I found it to be so exciting that when I got home My undies were so wet and Iwas soo turned on. I had such a great time and of course my husband. WE had sex til 9 in the morning!!! so many new horizons and adventures to come. I love date night. I just have to figure what to do with the ? Like every night? lol just kidding but at the least Once a month.
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email me or message me
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Posted:Aug 9, 2012 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2013 1:16 am
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If anyone would like to comment please do. I would love to hear advice or commits. Maybe even a meet and greet?
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