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The only flirts and hotlists that I get are from women about half my age who usually live in another country and looking for their soulmate. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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In my experience, flirts have been generated by the site without the owner of the profile knowing - think they're part of the ice breaker programme? They're all from profiles located many miles away and from someone it is so obvious that we would not be a match. So I ignore the lot of them.
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The best way to tell if they're bots or scammers is If they all have faces,initiate contact,send messages and even reply. It's best to just ignore~ Using more than all the road!
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I hotlist someone if I was IMing him and want to find him again more easily the next time I'm online.
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2/4/2019 10:40 pm |
Anytime that I have tried to contact a woman who had hotlisted me the outcome has been the same as any other attempts at communication through this site. Meaning I might as well as typed it out and then instantly deleted it for all the response that I had gotten. Well that is not 100% true, I did get an answer from a local woman who stated as a precondition for her continuing communication that I had to say that I had to be seeking a lifetime commitment. It didn't feel like she read my profile. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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2/5/2019 2:11 am |
As said above, its best to just ignore
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2/5/2019 8:47 am |
The only flirts and hotlists that I get are from women about half my age who usually live in another country and looking for their soulmate.
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I get flirted and hotlisted all the time, however, 95% of them are looking for "the one", "seeking an husbund" (yes, I spelled it the same way they did), or only provide a third party site. The other 5%, are mostly Passion's auto flirt, where the person never does flirt to begin with. The remaining 1%, I flirt back and see if they respond. If I want to let someone know I like their profile, I send a message.
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hotlisting is a way that standards can get intouch with another member
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I've never been hotlisted, and the only flirts I get are from women far younger than I, who live hundreds of miles away.
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Be patient
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I find it flattering. It's nice that someone thinks enough of you to reach out.
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If a person finds me attractive enough to flirt or hot list me I will always try to at least thank them. If I find them attractive besides just thanking them I will try to start a conversation.
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