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The work around
Posted:Nov 17, 2021 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 8:03 pm
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A taste of my erotic mind...
Posted:Feb 20, 2015 1:16 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:36 pm
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This is one of my stories i'm putting together for an anthology (maybe, one day. I have 4 parts but just posting 1)... let me know what you think

Thomas sat in a hotel room in Chicago. His business trip brought him to the windy city and after the day was done, he entered his room with a sigh as he closed the door and ripped off his tie. He fell back onto the bed when his phone beeped with a new text message. He smiled before he even pulled the phone out of his pocket. She always had impeccable timing.

>>Cara>> Miss me?
>>Thomas>> Absolutely. Wish you were here.
>>Cara>> And what would we do in Chicago?
>>Thomas>> Oh I’d show you around the sites. Take you out to eat.
>>Cara>> What if I didn’t want to go out? And what if I only wanted you to eat?
>>Thomas>> Oh, I’d eat alright.
>>Cara>> Mmmmm I so miss your tongue. What else would you do to me?
>>Thomas>> Oh I have a lot of plans for us…
>>Cara>> Prove it.
>>Thomas>> It’s hard to prove from so far away.
>>Cara>> Maybe not?

Thomas was about to text back and ask what she meant when there was a knock at the door. As he got to the door and looked through the peep hole, there was Cara, trademark black sweats, and thick coat with her hood over her head.

“Isn’t this a surprise,” he said. “Come in.”

“It’s cold out there,” she said as she walked past him. “Think you can warm a girl up?” she asked with a coy smile as she dropped the coat to the floor and crawled onto the bed on all fours, looking back at him over her shoulder.
He grabbed her hips and pulled her back as he turned her to her back and kissed her deeply. His hands moving down her body, over her breasts, down her stomach and sliding under her t-shirt. She moaned as his warm hands moved up her chill body. The difference in temperature causing her already hard nipples to ache. That ache only intensified as she felt his hard cock through his pants as he moved against her.

His kisses moved to her ears and he licked and nibbled along her earlobes. She tried to move her hips to align his cock against her pussy through the sweats as he took his sweet time kissing her ears before moving down her neck. Her hands were pulling his shirt up his back causing him to sit up and lift it off while she removed hers.

His lips immediately returned to her neck before slowly moving across her collarbone. Slowly moving lower as his hands caressed her breasts as he took one between his teeth. He pulled gently while squeezing the other. He ran his tongue around the right nipple teasingly, before sucking it into his mouth. He then returned to teasing the nipple with his tongue before switching to her left breasts and repeating the same thing over and over, back and forth.
His tongue ran down her belly, circling her navel. His hands grabbed the waist of her sweats and panties as he slowly pulled them down as he kissed and licked his way lower. As the sweats revealed her wet pussy, he kept his tongue teasingly to her thighs as he removed her clothes. Licking his way down her right inner thigh, before licking back up her left. As he reached her pussy, he breathed in that sweet aroma as his tongue just ran along the outer edges.

“Please,” she begged. “Please stop teasing me.”

He then licked from the bottom of her pussy slowly up toward the top, flicking his tongue over her clit before returning to licking the edges again. She tried to lift her hips but his hands had her firmly in place. He then grabbed one of her lips and moved his head back and forth before releasing it again and teasing her some more. He then sunk his tongue into her pussy, lapping up her wetness as he ran his hands back up to her breasts and held them firm. Her hips started rocking as he tongue fucked her slowly. He brought his left hand down and slid a finger inside her.

As he started slowly finger fucking her, his tongue circled her clit. He sped up the circling as he increased the pace in which he fingered her pussy. He then inserted a second finger as he started flicking his tongue on her clit. As he alternated flicking his tongue and running his tongue in circles, her moans increased as he brought her closer to orgasm. Curling up his finger, rubbing first gently and then harder on her g-spot bringing her closer and closer to the edge. He then nibbled lightly on her clit causing her entire body to tense up as she exploded internally with orgasm. He lapped up her flowing juices as her thighs were squeezing tightly around his head. As she slowly came down, he kissed up her belly, breasts and neck before kissing her deeply, letting her taste herself on his tongue.

“Mmmmm, I wanna taste you now,” she said.

“You will,” he replied. “But not yet,” he said with a smirk as he slid his cock inside her. One inch and withdrawal. Two inches…. Three. Each time sliding an inch deeper and removing his cock until only the head remained inside her. Teasingly slow he continued with four. Five. And then six and seven. Eight… and nine. When all nine inches were inside he just sat and let her get used to his size and girth. Nine inches would be enough for some to brag about, but he knew it was the six inches around that got her hooked as he slowly started sliding out, again leaving just the tip inside her.

“You ready?” he asked. Without even waiting for a reply he slammed all of himself back in with one hard thrust and kept still. Then removed it again only to repeat the same process.

“More,” she said. And he continued thrusting hard and deep increasing his speed as time went on. He grabbed her hands and held them above her head as he continued fucking her hard and deep. Letting her feel every vein, every inch of him. Their bodies touching from hand to toe. Her knees spread and ankles on his ass pulling him deeper.

As the pace increased, he whispered into her ear,” I’m going to cum inside you. I’m going to fill you each and every time we do this.”

Her moans were all the answer he needed as he could feel her getting close. Their bodies tensed as they approached that plateau. He held himself deep on the final thrust as he shot stream after stream of his cum inside her. She felt each burst deep inside herself as she just gave herself over to her orgasm as her pussy milked him dry.

He remained inside her, fingers still interwoven as he gently kissed her neck.
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My Videos
Posted:Feb 17, 2015 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:36 pm
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So I've had a few up, but lighting sucks. Any other feedback?

Any requests or things you'd suggest/want to see?

Let me know
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Valentines
Posted:Feb 13, 2015 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:36 pm
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Not a V-day post, but more of a it's been too long since I posted type of post.

Back at school going for my bachelor's in English/Education, so free time is limited but usually well spent. Netflix and hulu are my best friends.

Hope everyone's enjoying their 2015 so far. Feel free to post about anything and get me active on here again.
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Birthday Dilemma
Posted:Nov 2, 2009 11:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:27 pm
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Ok, its not the birthday blues, but here's my dilemma.....

I'm not 36, yet still look like a . So the women my age don't look my way unless they like younger, and the younger are interested until they find out my age. The younger ones that do show interest usually don't know what they want, so it never goes anywhere.

So I'm not exactly sure what to think anymore. Most offers are from a distance away, which i don't mind, but it makes it hard for something consistent. I don't mind the fun, but sometimes you want or crave a little more.

Maybe its just a phase of life, where I have to wait to look older, or just lay back and masturbate profusely lol.

So what do others think out there? What would you do in a similar situation?
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Summer is over...
Posted:Sep 14, 2009 10:55 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:35 pm
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The summer is over and it was.... busy. Not in the way most would think from this site, but just work wise. I'm not a slut like most believe, and i honestly don't meet as often as many like to think i do. I'm actually quite conservative and pretty vanilla compared to alot of my friends on here lol.

I do enjoy fun, but I don't like to rush into things (unless its just one of those days when i could just explode!) so if i seem like i'm hesitant, I'm not, I just don't jump into things without talking first. Talking is my foreplay. A good conversation gets me ready for more and I firmly believe the brain is the biggest sex organ (ok, its close), so I need some stimulation if you want to go further. That doesn't mean i'm not interested in you or you're not my type, it just means you have to spend a little time getting to know me. And i said a little, not forever lol.

I seem to attract alot of fakes or people unsure about what they want, which only frustates things further and makes it harder for the real people out there. Photos, texts, emails are all good, but until I talk on the phone or have a drink face to face, forgive me if I'm a little skeptical. And just because we meet, doesn't mean anything has to happen. I understand preferences and I understand chemistry, so I can be just a friend. It doesn't have to be all or nothing with me.

Here's to a fall that will be kind to everyone. Maybe the autumn leaves, not hinder your view of the happiness that you desire.
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What I want...
Posted:Jul 4, 2008 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:35 pm
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I get asked what I'm looking for alot, and its one of those questions that is tough to answer sometimes.

Relationships - I'm not against relationships, but its not something I'm going to jump into either. It has to be something that we both undeniably want, and we're going to give 100%. If you're just trying to mark me as yours so no one else can have me, but act la de da about things, then its not going to happen. I'm all for finding someone that I want to be with all the time, but I'm not going to settle just because its convienient.

Flings - I'm not a fan, but they do happen. As long as its what both people want, I don't have an issue with it, but I won't just disappear. I'd prefer to do it occasionally, unless one of us gets into a relationship, or at the minimum still talk and hang out occasionally. I'm not going to sleep with just anyone though, so If I prefer to be just friends, don't take it personally, I just wouldn't want to use you for that. That kind of sex just isn't appealing.

FWB's - No issues here. As long as its regular and not just the premise of a FWB but really only a fling, then fine, I can live with that. But I've seen feelings happen quite a bit with this, and one side ends up getting hurt, so its not really something that works often.

Friends - Alot fall into this group. I love conversation and I do flirt, even if nothing is wanted by either party. I have no problems being friends with anyone, and am always willing to talk. So if you just want to be friends, don't be afraid to say so.
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The Passion Experience
Posted:Jun 3, 2008 9:39 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:34 pm
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History: I've been on this site for 9 years now. I joined at the age of 26, after getting out of a long relationship, and back then, the site was alot smaller. The chat rooms were more consolidated, and the area I'm from (philly/tristate) used to be part of the East Coast room, which went from Maine to Florida, and had fewer chatters than the rooms do now. So if you think you have it tough now, you can imagine what it was like then.

Observations: Spending time in chat has let me observe how people interact, and including my own experiences, have a general idea of what works and doesn't work.

Meeting people on the site is no different than meeting people in the "real world". You still have to treat people with respect, know how to present yourself, and know how to "sell yourself" without going overboard and make it seem like bragging.

Being behind a monitor makes things easier to open up and say whatever you want, but just remember that you need to keep to who you are, because if you meet that person face to face, it will be pretty obvious if you lied or aren't what you made yourself out to be. Saying you're 12 inches when you're 6 will probably get you laughed at. Showing graduation pics when you're in your 40's will make people shake their heads and walk away. Honesty will get you further then lying will.

Try it, it works!

Personal Experience:

I've met hundreds of people thru Meet & Greets, and have met a fair share for "other" activities. I don't meet just anyone, in fact, i'm pretty picky. I can't just be a manwhore, even though I've had enough offers to do so, and I'm constantly looking for more out of a meet. I don't look at the women I meet as just a conquest, but rather If i could see myself in a relationship with them. Yes, I've done random hookups, but in general, most have been more than that, and I still communicate with 90% of those who I have met regularly. I haven't found "the one" but that will happen when it happens.

Maybe the fact that I treat all my meets like real dates, never expecting anything to happen (even though most of the time it does) and that I won't meet if i can't have a decent conversation with that person first, is what's made my experience here successful and why I'm still here lol.

So for those complaining and whining about how you have no luck here, maybe its time to stop blaming the site itself, and look at yourself.
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My status
Posted:Jun 2, 2008 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2010 1:18 pm
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I think a few thought my last blog post meant that I was trying a new relationship or that I was in one.

I am completely single. Not married, no , no commitments. I don't just randomly hook up, I'm picky and like to at least get some sort of mental connection before a physical one happens.

So email already lol
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Spring Fever
Posted:May 29, 2008 4:35 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2021 6:35 pm
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Love is in the air
yet its outside my reach
Part of me searches for it endlessly
part of me would rather be at the beach

Is it worth the pain of memories past
or is the lonliness a better friend
Can I sleep around and not care
or do i want to feel apart of something again

Not sure what to believe anymore
My heart is a blank book of nothing
My emotions soar with each beat
Spring fever should be something
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