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Ramblings of a Gentleman
 
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Relocating,... but it's a secret. :P
Posted:Nov 15, 2014 4:18 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2014 2:55 pm
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Passion is being a pain in the ass.

So I am relocating. I tried to update my status to show where I would be next week, and Passion shot it down. Then I tried to show the info in my profile as an update, and they wouldn't approve it. Then I tried to change my location in my settings, and they nixed that too.

Apparently, you cannot change your location until you are physically there, and you can't mention where you're going because that's "advertising".

So for some of you, now I'm here, tomorrow I'm gone.

I'll see if I can change this crap tomorrow when I get where I'm going,
(since Passion insists it be kept a fucking secret).
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You're right ladies, guys just don't read! Here we go again....
Posted:Nov 9, 2014 5:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2014 6:59 pm
5442 Views

Seriously. No matter how much you lay it all out in your profile,... (just like I have)....big and bold as day, right in the middle of my profile:

*** I AM NOT A "SWITCH HITTER". I AM STRAIGHT. I LIKE "WOMEN"! SWINGING DICKS NEED NOT APPLY - NOT A CHANCE IN HELL! ***

And I still get this:

(Unnamed jackass in NJ) Hey are u coming East? It would be hot to blow u....

Partner, you couldn't blow me if you brought your own hurricane.

Is it really that hard to read a profile to get an idea of who someone is, rather than just seeing a picture and sending off asinine messages?

I state who and what I am on my profile. This is the second blog I've written about this. I don't know of anything else I can do to promote the fact that I am not into "DICK", AND NO DICK WILL BE INTO ME EITHER!
(I figured I'd better clear that up before some jackass ran with that too).
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Oral Sex.
Posted:Sep 3, 2014 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2017 6:16 pm
3867 Views

It amazes me how your thought process changes as you get older. I can remember my younger days and those first opportunities to go down on a woman. There was a combined feeling of taboo and awkwardness that it takes you quite a while to get over. Compared to now, when the thought of performing oral sex on a woman is a natural thought brought on by the “want” to make her happy.

Lets be real ladies. There aren’t many men that get it right for you the first time. Certainly if they have no experience, and probably if they haven’t had much experience with you. Hell, I can only feel sorry for you if they can’t get it right after a few times. With age come knowledge and experience. The same is true when it comes to spending quality time with one person. If you aren’t privileged enough to spend time with someone that responds to you and shows you what she likes, you’re gonna be studying “cliff notes” on oral sex for quite some time before you pass that test.

But ladies, you can never forget that you’re the teacher here. A woman’s body is a miracle on this earth. Every single one of them is beautiful in their own way. But they are also all very different. Each woman has different wants, needs, triggers that turn her on, different things she wants done to her to make her toes curl. There is no perfect combination to that pleasure safe she keeps tucked away.

So in closing, I say this. Ladies, if you’re looking for that perfect oral sex experience, keep in mind that it’s going to take two things:
A student that wants to try different combinations to your safe,
and a teacher that wants to help him find the right one.

Happy moaning!

The "Gentleman"
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Love your profile.....NOT!!!
Posted:Sep 1, 2014 6:20 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2014 5:14 pm
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Wow, why does it have to be so complicated.
You get a few paragraphs to lay out who you are and what you're looking for.
It would probably be in everyone's best interest that you get it right the first time.

My profile is pretty straight forward. Nothing left off, nothing added in for flair.
I'd like to think that yours is set up the same way. Unfortunately, most of the women I've been in contact with have been misleading and mostly full of crap. Seriously, for an adult social network, some of you need some serious work on the "socializing" part. I do have a couple of favorites;

Saying that you're looking for a kind, respectful gentlemen, but saying you won't respond unless you get "dick" pics? Wow, pretty pathetic. Just a "little" counterproductive. Good luck.

Then there's the ones that invite you to ask questions, but they either never respond or get pissed because you asked a question. Really?

Lets be honest ladies. No one on this site is perfect. No one on this site is innocent. No one is on this site because they want to be alone either.

If you're only wanting "hook-ups", why go into any rant about the type of guy you're looking for. It's doubtful you'll ever get to know him anyway. Stick to wanting a measurement and forget "someone treating you right".

If you're looking for someone to talk with to add a little more personality to the experience, why be snotty when someone is trying to make contact with you? Answer the messages and at least take a moment to see if this might be something worth checking out. You're not going to find a personality in a profile pic.

Take the time to add a little more truth about what you're looking for and who you're looking for. It will save a lot of guys from wasting a lot of time. We don't want to waste our time any more than you want to waste yours.

Sincerely,
The "Gentleman"
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