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Blogs > hereforyou6217 > A Charming Wreck

Comfort level  

hereforyou6217 50M
176 posts
11/18/2007 9:29 pm

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2/20/2011 9:15 pm
Comfort level

I've had women look at me and say, "I don't know what it is, but I really feel comfortable with you." I often think about how that would change if they knew I was here.

This kinda stops me in my tracks a little right now. I've spoken before in this blog about how being on this site has made me a lot more comfortable with myself-- more secure (though I have a reader or two who're probably rolling their eyes to that one), more outgoing, more able to talk to people (specifically women, specifically women I find attractive). There was a long time, for a while, when I found myself relatively tongue-tied in the presence of a beautiful woman. Now I don't have that problem. Well, I don't have as MUCH of a problem, anyway.

So it makes me wonder about this site-- this... I don't know, lifestyle? Is that the word I'm looking for? How much does it affect my personality? I find it interesting, though, that the very things that make me so easy to talk to, so easy to get along with and be comfortable with, those things were at least an indirect result of me being involved in a lifestyle that would tend to make most women (present company excluded, I'm sure) pretty uncomfortable indeed.

Hm.

rm_1hotwahine 70F
21089 posts
11/19/2007 8:38 pm

 am sitting here staring a a blank comment box. h... Let me think about this one a bit.
Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


hereforyou6217 replies on 11/23/2007 7:12 pm:
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