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ElDeano64116 66M

1/27/2015 3:08 am

 Somewhere quiet so you can talk and see if there is any connection. I gave up the idea a long time ago that I expected a woman to have a mattress strapped to their back on the first meet and greet. if there is something there, believe me you will both know about it. But never expect anything at first.


rm_Posse_93 49M
368 posts
1/28/2015 12:50 am

 The coffee date is a good option, but I voted for bar date. The alcohol would relax both of you, and if there is chemistry, a bar is more conducive to allowing things to progress. A coffee date is much less likely to lead to something more (except a second date).


vabeachhotwife 62M/62F
394 posts
1/28/2015 8:45 am

 It really has depended upon the other person and if we've gotten to know each other somewhat first (chat, phone, etc). Sometimes, meet for coffee. Sometimes wine. And there have been times of going straight to a motel (or house / apartment).


PokerPanda1 62M
21 posts
1/28/2015 9:13 am

 coffee, more quiet than a bar date. I like to HEAR and LISTEN when spoken to. Not a great fan of screaming and saying "WHAT ! HUH !" or smile dumbly and nod.


lilluv_54 71M
103 posts
1/28/2015 2:46 pm

 I voted coffee as I'm not really a drinker, but in all reality I'll let the other person decide where they want to meet.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
1/28/2015 6:58 pm

 Coffee !
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merxth100 73M
36 posts
1/28/2015 10:03 pm

 It depends on the person and what they are comfortable with.


rm_bisocialman 56M
36 posts
1/29/2015 12:21 pm

 I selected coffee date but that has usually been after chatting by phone or on the computer


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
1/29/2015 1:04 pm

 Usually I like to meet the person at my home as its my comfort zone. I live the curtains open until I decide if i want to have sex with the person,
LadyTeddieBear


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/31/2015 2:46 am

 Meeting in a safe public spot, and then if I feel safe, a motel room is a fantastic destination.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


Depeer3 63M
146 posts
1/31/2015 4:33 am

 Bar or coffee date, chat and see where it goes.


seancarroll 38M
8 posts
2/4/2015 9:10 pm

 I won't agree to meet someone until I'm fully comfortable doing so. Once I reach that threshold, I'm just looking for sex.
Sean Carroll


Trapper69 67G
2657 posts
2/6/2015 12:12 pm

 I like to meet in a public setting first... After a few bad experiences, I believe it's best to meet in public then head to the hotel if all involved are comfortable.


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