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bamaman359 64M  
1624 posts
4/26/2017 6:15 pm

do not mind when the woman takes charge some times fun


lancelicksalot 46M
7 posts
4/26/2017 6:46 pm

Whats sad is that most of society says they believe in one thing and does the opposite at times, or even worse...keep standards different by making excuses.
Life is about circumstances. 1mm can make a difference, not to mention mood


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
4/26/2017 7:06 pm

I do not chase .it puts you in the inferior position ,handing all decision power to the person being chased , and reducing your standing as a desirable choice . if you value me ,respect me admire my qualities ,you will decide to find me if you wish .I am the commodity in short supply and will act accordingly. desperation is not a good cologne for men to wear.


benard69 66M/66F  

4/26/2017 7:22 pm

To much over thinking will lead to having to wear glasses...


mike19619999 62M
645 posts
4/26/2017 11:54 pm

A very interesting article, and one that backs up my own life experiences. "men are supposed to plan dates, ask out the woman, and pick her up." - I am going on a date this weekend, my first for over a year... I will bear these words in mind.

Come visit my blog mike19619999 to find out more about what makes me tick. I don't bite- unless you want me to.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
4/27/2017 3:34 pm

My situation may be the norm here, because I live in a sparsely populated are, boonies with no large population base closer than 4 1/2 hours. Since most of the interesting live some distance away, an initial meeting would usually involve travel on the part of 1 or both us.

I like to get to know someone 1st, and they likely want to get to know me; since we may arrange a mid-point rendezvous.

The possibility of sex is always a there, but not promised. Therein lies the dilemma.

- In the initial discussions, how soon should talk of sex enter the picture?
- Is it just flirtation?
- Is sexual talk essential to pique (and hold their interest)?
- is it pathetic, to be sexually flirtatious, to keep them interested?
- Does it make you appear "ready to do anyone"?
- But what if you really "like" this person, and just "let nature take its course"?
- You need to become friends first, before becoming friends with benefits, right?
- Will I appear needy? Or desperate? Or easy? That makes me an easy target.

It's all just one giant Crap shoot. Maybe I am overthinking

I am stuck between what I want and what I need - A relationship vs a roll in the hay. And also between the emotions it brings out in me.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


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