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well not good a flirting anyways, but wouldn't do anything behind my partner's back that I wouldn't do without their knowledge.
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i am not much of a flirt, a big turn off for me is when there is someone flirting with me and they had too much to drink.
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It's really all about trust and confidence in the relationship. If both are fine with it then it's not a big deal at all either way. But generally i'd say doing it in private is the worse of the two. If I did it in front of her I'd hope she realizes that it's harmless and just me being myself Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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If you know it is harmless flirting, then do it out in the open. Flirting behind your partner's back can definitely lead to issues. If you have to hide the flirting, then what else is being hidden? Hypothetical situation (really really really hypothetical).....if you and I were together and out somewhere and a guy started flirting, and you flirted back, I would be fine with. Kind of the "flirt all you want to buddy, she comes home to me" However, if the flirting was being done behind my back, I would start to wonder "why is she hiding it? Is it more than just flirting? "
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Flirting is flirting but your partner should be aware of it and comfortable with it or it is a no go. If partners were just comfortable with one another and could communicate with each other I think they would find enough kinkiness inside to satisfy each others fantasies without uncomfortable situations. As soon as you think you have to hide it from your partner call that relationship over because its just running on borrowed time.
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Flirting openly can be taken as harmless, but in private it is a full on flirt. I all depend on your partner and how they see it.
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I guess it depends on your partner's attitude, and your attitude to your partner.
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Depends on your ground rules and security. Personally I love a good flirt. And I like to take the flirt further if I can.....enjoy Mike
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We are both big flirts. Turns me on to see her flirt.
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Flirting is a personality trait - it keeps life fun and exciting and leads to better intimacy. Try to alter the personal behavior and you change the person. Otherwise, it shouldn't matter if you're comfortable in the relationship and trusting of your partner.
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It depends on how your partner takes you flirting. If he doesn't like it, don't do it in front of him.
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as long as you partner know that you flirt and is ok with it.
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5/7/2015 8:24 am |
pimpin aint eassy
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Fr me if m in relation qith me then i nvr prefer flirting with anyone. So its bad to flirt in both way
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We are both shameless flirts so we have no problem when either is flirting with someone else. Flirting is just that...more in depth interaction is more complicated.
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very sexy
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If its in secret then there's less chance of anyone getting hurt
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its in a mans nature,we cant help it,although,if you are hurting some one with it ,dont flirt,atn least not in the open
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I think that the answer would depend on your partner at the time.
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Hiding it from your partner is wrong. If there is nothing to hide then it doesn't matter if your partner is around or not. If you have to hide it, then there is obviously something else wrong with your partnership. All that being said, nothing is wrong with a little playful flirt. It makes everybody feel better.
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All relationships require trust. But no amount of trust can completely eliminate the "sting" of your partner flirting with someone else. I personally don't like to feel as though my affections are being constantly tested, and that I have to always "prove" my worthiness to my partner. If she flirts with others, it makes me feel that she is subconsciously (or not) looking for a better offer.
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flirting in any case doesnt matter till both are open to it. but if one partner doesnt like another partner doing then the problem arises.. as to whether go with personal instincts or to adhere the partner's choice..
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I would not be with someone that is so insecure, that they get uptight of some causal flirting.
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I suppose it just depends on how it makes your partner feel. I'm sure none of us really want to hurt our partners - so I think it is about showing empathy and being considerate. Ideally all relationships would be strong enough that a bit of flirting wouldn't hurt anyone, but the reality is that many people are jealous or insecure and that flirting, either in front of, or behind, can damage the relationship. In other relationships this isn't the case of course. So, it just depends I think!
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What is flirting? Just talking and joking around for fun or is it looking for someone to have sex with. That where the problem may start. I don't care if my partner has a good time joking and pranks are to me not flirting. Now doing this for finding someone to have sex with is a no go.. I would hope that most people look at it this way I don't want anyone fucking my wife so i don't mess with there wives. This as stop me from asking a lot of ladies out and will kept me from ask a lot more out I do respect a man and ladies relationship. MYFUTUREXWIFE
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I think if you feel a sudden connection with someone then it's impossible not to flirt whether it's in public or in private.
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I think that if you are in a serious relationship with someone, wether you are heterosexual, bi , les, or gay, you should not be flirting with someone else.. that leads to cheating, and i do not condone cheating..
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I really think that is an unfair question to ask on a swingers site. I love it when my wife flirts with other guys. But we're swingers and we both get into that. Ask the question to a group of vanilla people and you'll get a much different answer.
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Most all of my Ladies have been wicked flirts, and so am I. So it doesn't affect either of us, we know we're solid.  Si Vis Pacem Para Bellum Audentes Fortuna Iuvat Politicians. Lampposts. Assembly Required.
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6/4/2015 6:15 am |
as long as it does not bother your partner ...its fine
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Flirting shouldn't be taken seriously, most of the times... acting past flirting is definitely not right - partner there or not.
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I'm such a flirt. By the time I'm in a relationship my partner knows just how much of a flirt I am and has accepted it. So I flirt shamelessly. [362821]
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