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Getting a response is nice, but if you don't get one, that works too. I too realize the women on this site get flooded with e-mails, and it would be a full time job keeping up with them.
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I would think the response should be appropriate to his effort. If he just send a d pic, then don't respond. If he took the time to write something meaningful, he at least deserves an appropriate answer. It helps to hear what a person did not like or why they regarded you with no interest. Often, there is just a misunderstanding, which often is resolved in they actually are interested. In any other case, it helps you be more appealing later from having learned from the experience.
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while it would be nice to get a response even if its no thanks, we assume a no response is the same thing. as a rule we try to reply to all emails, unless they are too stupid to reply to...the 'hey wanna hook up' one liners we usually simply delete. we also try to keep it a simple no thank you...but also if the situation warrants, we will give a reason - usually its cuz the other's profile is devoid of any information that would pique our curiosity. it might be other things in the way they present themselves...our thought is that tho we are giving a pass, if the other knows why and they think it is something they should/can change, it might lead to future success for them.
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It's polite to reply, even if not interested.
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No response is the response.
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3/4/2015 7:14 am |
no reponse is better than being lied to-----still a not interested would be better that reminds me---i have some "not interesteds" to send
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3/4/2015 9:37 am |
During the majority of my working career I have been a boss. I have always told my employees that I can't fix a problem if I do not know what the problem is. I send a lot of messages and I receive few responses and rarely do they tell me why they are not interested. Generally I try to contact older ladies and couples. I rarely write anyone in their 20s unless they indicate they are interested in older men. I am honest, respectful and my messages are way more than "Hi wanna fuck". My main photo is a face shot, not a cock shot. A lot of people look at my profile but to not message me. Some things I can not change such as my age. No one who meets me believes I am in my 70s, most think I am in the 50s. But if my approach was wrong or if I communicate too much or not enough how am I to know how to fix it if no one tells me.
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No response is making a statement without saying a word. Don't take it personally; just move on.
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A simple "no" would be plenty .
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We try to respond to all emails we receive unless it's clear they did not read our profile and send stupid one liners. Or if you email us with nothing in the body of the message and just Hi in the subject line probably won't get a response from us either. We usually can judge a person's intelligence and communication skills based on how they correspond with us. If we write to someone, we at least put a little thought into it and in that case, it's nice to even get just a not interested response if you're not interested.
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I try to reply to all emails even the ones I am definitely not interested in, gay or bi guys. Its jus common courtesy
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Sometimes I get 100s of emails a day... lots of times they are rude, vulgar, explicit or just plain stupid... I often don't respond. It's not a personal thing, or with any intent to be disrespectful, but I value my time and simply don't have the time to be bothered with responding to half of the crap I get emailed anyway. Plus, when I used to send "no thanks" emails, guys would get excited and think it was an opportunity to talk me into it or send further requests to communicate... it gets tiring telling people no and sometimes no response is the best response.
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1 post 3/5/2015 2:30 am |
i like to be close to you
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I agree with sexy , but I don't get a hundred a day. I get emails from men that are attached and married , under my age preference and other things that they did not read that were preferences from my profile and one word and one sentence emails are the common practice. Should I have to respond to all of those and the dic pics when it clearly states I will not in my profile ? And even the polite no for whatever reason does seem to start conversation as to why and etc.
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I never send vulgar or rude emails , and yes a simple response interested or not would be nice. I do realize some women get hammered with tons of email and often wonder , if they ever got it. If they respond "not interested" I move on , no big deal.
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i agree with several of these responses...no response is a "no thanks" to me. sometimes a "no thanks" isn't respected and makes the person keep trying, which is frustrating. as far as i'm concerned, when people are looking for hook-ups and NSA, how can you be offended if someone doesn't respond?
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Personally, this site is filled to the brim with people wanting fantasy. I'm here for my own reasons, as is everyone else. I too have responded to be courteous, only to have an argumentative person respond back with abuse. I now don't respond to any emails or messages that are obvious one liners sent to god knows how many. I still respond to emails that I can see someone's taken the time to read my profile and has actually put some thought into it. These are few and far between. So, I voted either way I don't really care. I don't email or message people I don't know anyway
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Since I am not young or slim I don't get bombarded with messages. I try to read and respond to the ones I do receive. I don't always respond to a pic with the same profile pic. Depending on the time on my hands I will respond to "wanna fuck" with sorry already have plans or Sorry still sore . I always reply to someone that seems to have some real interest by showing their originality they at least deserve that. The ones that cut and paste their profile usually don't receive an answer unless they add something that makes the message unique to me. I think they're looking for anything to fuck. One word message such as hi, hello, sexy etc... usually means they want to chat on IM and I am not much into that. I think they are looking for a fuck for that very moment. I answer message with a lol Messages with contact me at an email, get no response. Message with call me plus # no response
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We normally try to reply with a no thanks, but thanks for your interest. The ones that reply with a "why not?" gets no reply again. To us, that is just rude to ask why, and opens themselves up for a lot of heart break. We dont want to tell anyone that they are ugly, too short, too tall, etc.
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I do not get emails so my opinion is mute. However since I have one here it is. Social etiquette when it existed would require a response to a question. In the modern world of information overload and more emails than you will require in three lifetimes I imagine that a non response equates to a no. Too simple?? not sure....enjoy Mike
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While many think it is polite to reply. I have had to deal with being called all kinds of names when I do reply that I am not interested. Just last week had someone call me a 'racist bitch" when I let him know I was not interested, (my reply was that I am not interested in meeting new people right now). Or I get just try me you'll change your mind.
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3/5/2015 9:20 pm |
myself... I need to know either way.so I can move on.
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theanswer depends on the questions privacy andother factors
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If i send an email and i dont get a response one way or the other its totally fine with me. But when i send a email get no response but daily i see my profile is viewed by the person(s) i sent it too, it does make me wonder and go why dont you simply say hello lol.
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No reply says not interested well enough and saves both sides time. If you do reply I don't need to know why you are not interested as the reasons don't matter. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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