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COUPLES... SEEKING BI FEMALES  

Iwanta3some9 59F
22 posts
1/6/2015 2:32 am
COUPLES... SEEKING BI FEMALES


I will start this blog by first stating its contents isn’t directed at anyone in particular but more so a way to open dialogue / debate over some of the conversations and or observations I’ve had over the last 2 years with some members on here...
Couples... Seeking Bi females:
I for one am not bi (not yet anyway) lol am I curious? The jury is still out on that one, if my husband had his way...um YA, GO FOR IT! Perhaps one of these days, months, years I will shock him. lol
I have been approached by a few couples over the last little while in their quest to find women for a ffm setting and with some their husband would be optional if I had an issue with him participating. Obviously for the optional setting, clearly there is in fact interest in woman to woman pleasure but this blogs intent is to open dialogue on the other aspect of it...
I may be criticized for the following but this is more of my own personal observation/opinion....
I do understand and appreciate the desire for some women wanting to experience being with other women, we are sexy and hot aren’t we. (Hmm, guess by that statement alone sort of has the jury’s decision) not quite, I’m just not ready yet. Anyway, the majority of the time it’s the male counterpart who approaches me. If it was the female I’d be questioning myself if it was in fact her and not the male... but that is a whole different topic in itself. Lol Typically it’s the same story, my wife would like to experience another woman but then suddenly gets twisted into sex chat as it is apparent he would like to be involved as much if not more than her. When that happens, I like to throw a little twist into things myself I start off by questioning if there would be any interest in a full swap scenario as well this way my husband can be part of this experience. Suddenly, it’s...oh no, my wife isn’t interested in males just females...interesting being that she is married to a male. I further check out their profile and low and behold it clearly has that...”we are in a secure relationship” statement. Lol
My observation and opinion is (not for all couples of course) but I’m certain the majority is of the “wants his cake and eat it too” metaphor.
Let’s broaden this a little further...the definition of bi is? Uh huh...into both sexes. Lol
I think a lot of women (I may be wrong for some) are being deprived of the experience of being with another male while the husband is the one who is insistent that she isn’t interested in the opposite sex or perhaps that is wishful thinking on his part.
I can hardly believe that any female who is married to a male would not have at some point come across another male where there wasn’t some interest...we are all human after all.
So I’ll wrap up this blog by saying, I’d have more respect for a male who openly stated that he does not want his wife/gf to be with another male then to try and make me or anyone else think otherwise.
Course by doing that, he could find himself in a debate as to why it’s only good for the goose and not the gander...lol

Ok be gentle on me please. lol

TheMechanik365 52M
103 posts
1/6/2015 3:28 am

I think you hit the nail on the head. Most of those men just want to fuck another female, it's not about the wife at all. I think if you want to have a fmf liaison, as a man you should be open to having a mfm with your wife. Now she may not be interested in that but you have to be open to that idea. I'm with you on the whole my isn't interested in another male. Women are human and strong sexual desires and believe me, your wife or girlfriend has thought about fucking another man, probably has fantasizes about it, especially if your fucking her right. So no, Iwant, I don't think your off base here, what your saying is probably 95% true for the men that have those profiles. Good post


Iwanta3some9 replies on 1/6/2015 11:41 am:
Thank you for your response, coming from a male’s perspective, it is refreshing to see that there are some males who can appreciate not only the fairness but also the reality that we all have equal desires.

likearock1959 64M
3337 posts
1/6/2015 6:16 am

I think the same as you

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Iwanta3some9 replies on 1/6/2015 11:43 am:
Thanks, off topic...Is it always like a rock? lol JK!

mirasexpher 45M/43F
18 posts
1/6/2015 8:27 am

Great post love how you state the full swap scenario most couples are only interested in the ladies and have the ladies have all the fun in all aspects that they are looking for there ffm any way they can get it. A bi curious woman just might like the soft tender touch a woman but not know if she will take it much further and would prefer to play with a man or 2. Fakes are very rude and not really appetizing for wasting time on. We are not desperate to meet every cock out there wanting to screw. I nice lady or couple to visit would be nice once and awhile but we are not desperate to fulfill our fantasies with rude cheaters that are so desperate they'd do about anything for a meet and great just to play with the wife.


Iwanta3some9 replies on 1/6/2015 1:26 pm:
Love your status, except for myself personally...men are welcome.
“most couples are only interested in the ladies” I do believe this in fact is the basis of this blog to explore that a little further. In my scenario for example, MMF, (but also open to couples full swap) there is no question that I am in fact the main attraction. My husband is 100% straight and during any of our encounters, focus is on me, there is no male to male interaction whatsoever. I do not at anytime expect my husband to be with the male in any capacity nor would I want him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with. Let’s turn this around a little though, how many of these couples seeking bi women does the husband only sit back and watch or his involvement only amounted to him pleasing his wife/partner with no interaction with the other women? (Choke, cough cough) none. Lol
If I’m wrong then I would suspect it would be a very small minority where there isn’t any interaction with the male and the other women or for other reasons such as of lack of interest from the other women herself. I’m just pointing out in short that, I think it’s unfair for women not to be able to experience being with another male if her partner does get to experience other women in any capacity.

likearock1959 64M
3337 posts
1/6/2015 2:24 pm

Lol Iwant u have to find out for yourself

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Iwanta3some9 replies on 1/6/2015 3:05 pm:
Maybe I put my foot in my mouth with that comment. lol
Sorry

mirasexpher 45M/43F
18 posts
1/6/2015 9:13 pm

On here we have noticed mostly just the men trying to interact with us. Especially cheating men that just want her to please him. We are not looking for them type of drama situations. In our experiences that is is easy for us to find another man to join in the fun and its very easy for us to have that interaction right now we have enough boy toys for the wife to be pleasured by getting fucked hard. She is not excited by it right now because most men who have joined in our excitement cant stay hard and she spends most of the time just trying to get the companies cock hard while he fucks her for a very long duration. We would just like the mode set with another lady or open couple again. There is a lot of enjoyment with full interaction excluding the MM scenario that has never been a thought in our experiences but alot of men on here want that from him for he is not into that. The human mind and body is beautiful and should be enjoyed without jealousy drama or misunderstandings. When the mood is set with lust and enjoyment all should be pleasured to the fullest.


Iwanta3some9 replies on 1/10/2015 12:08 pm:
I know what you’re saying and in the same breath you would have to take into account that the ratio of males versus females/couples is quite significant on here. So it’s not surprising that a lot of men would be contacting yous although your status clearly states...NO SINGLE MALES. Most on here from our experience just look at the profile pics and respond without reading (reading with the wrong head). Lol In reference to “cheating men” I look at it like this, there are some who have their status as being married/attached so it’s obvious of their intent. In all honesty, although I don’t entertain the idea of helping someone cheat, I do admire the honesty of those members. Let’s face it, any married/attached person can put single in there status and who would be the wiser? With that said, it isn’t that difficult to spot out a person who is attached or married, I think I’ve mastered my screening skills in that regard. Then we jump to the couple’s scenario again where it’s clearly a male who sets up his account as a couple....like really? Do people actually fall for the...” my wife chickened out at the last minute, but I’m available” routine? Lol
Yes, this site has its players, liars and fakes, it’s all part and parcel, i think if those who are here seeking “real” encounters would understand that being upfront, being as honest as one can be on a site like this would amount to a better success rate.

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