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rm_CChris1957 66M
34 posts
11/2/2014 11:44 am

Well done, I hate hearing women's abuse stories, good to read about one of the thugs getting g it back.


onerustyone1 74M
4670 posts
11/2/2014 11:45 am

I think , how much better the world would be without bullies !


rm_fun4pleaser 69M
462 posts
11/2/2014 12:06 pm

Good for you standing up to that asshat. I'm surprised you didn't kick him in the balls as well. I might have done worse to him.
thank you for being available to help those women who need a strong shoulder that has been where they are and can get them through it.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
11/2/2014 12:11 pm

WOW, you're on tough brave lady, and I get why.

But take care too lady. The cops may fully support you, but if you cross the line (and more to the point is someone complains) the cops would have little choice to arrest you too.

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getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
11/2/2014 12:12 pm

You're a strong willed woman Buni and I highly respect that shit! And yeah, I've fought on others behalf and a few times fucking pricks just like that fuck face! They ain't so tough when someone who can kick their ass straight up comes around! Though I'm sure a swift roundhouse Buni kick to the face may have done him in!?

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flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
11/2/2014 12:14 pm

If ever proof was needed that we don't just see you as a funny blogger, then this post delivers

Only know you of late through blogs, but immensely proud of you!!

So proud in fact that I refrain from smartass glib sign-off


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
11/2/2014 12:16 pm

You done good.


pateetongguy 54M
3 posts
11/2/2014 12:31 pm

Mega Kudos' and Karma to you my Dear and what you continually do for these woman and possibly a man or two once in awhile......My Mom jokingly told me when i was 6, "Remember Son, but there's no woman worth hitting but your Older Sister"....and that didn't last long. As i grew older, i saw/lived through some interesting things with my parents divorce....and then became "keen" to those situations as an adult. I've Never under Any circumstances Understood how a guy, male, or adult could strike a woman ? Unquestionably, it has to be something from that individuals childhood....it just doesn't register with me ? I even dated a girl in College that started for an SEC basketball team, and she'd pummel me when we were on the Court...but i learned to take it, grudgingly.

Men and Woman, Im sure there are many times you've had something set you off with your girlfriend, wife, ex, etc. that was possibly alcohol/substance influenced......but if you find yourself in a Dark place with a woman, seek help, counsel, a friend, of find a "safe word" you can habitually chant or say to yourself until you get away from the situation.

It's not Worth going to jail, prison, etc.....or even living with that in your past. Trust me, im an 6'4", 245 educated professional that has had to help pull/restrain a few guys in my life from making bad choices in public situations......and the Next day or week they've come to me and thanked me for stepping in.

In my situation, i revel in the physical pleasure i enjoy giving to a woman......that in itself is solace : )

Namaste ~


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/2/2014 12:59 pm

A tip of the hat to you dear lady.

Good job !!

the sad part is the cops will only hold his dumb-ass for so long, and then he'll be out again.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2014 1:41 pm

A good morning's work, Buni, Defender of Truth, justice and The American Way! I love this Buni just as much as the funny Buni.

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thatdamncat 66F
3929 posts
11/2/2014 2:35 pm

"Im not your wife asshole and I bite backt" Classic Bunnikins.... and totally NOT what he was expecting. I love you for this. Course, I loved you anyway
Get her out of state and away from him... and hopefully she can immediately file a restraining order there as well...Hopefully her family will arrange themselves as a shield around her, protect her, and help her rebuild the confidence to find herself a future without a flaming asshole.

"You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.


big54al 69M
2259 posts
11/2/2014 3:57 pm

Good for you! It boggles my mind that 138 republicans voted against the reauthorization of the violence against women act in 2013. All house democrats voted for it. Two of the weasels now running for office in my area actually claim that they voted for it, citing previous votes in which they did


sam_sybian 59M
638 posts
11/2/2014 4:34 pm

Good job and what you do is awesome. He must not have seen enough Monty Python he should know "that rabbit's dynamite."


tigerlady555 104F
2653 posts
11/2/2014 4:45 pm

Saint Bunny ~!
A modern day Saint helping women, giving smiles, kicking butt when required, and ending texting harassment in a single motion. But caring, she was sorry she broke the phone. You deserve a medal.

All female and born this way ~!


sckinkcouple 66M/61F  
484 posts
11/2/2014 5:38 pm

We admire you Buni and want to thank you for what you are doing. Domestic Abuse just keeps rising which is unbelievable.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
11/2/2014 6:09 pm

Beautiful.

A little risky maybe, but probably not as risky as it might seem... I firmly believe that most of these guys are utter cowards.


ak_bigbadwolf3 51M
2630 posts
11/2/2014 7:04 pm

Keep fighting the good fight.

Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
11/2/2014 8:53 pm

Sorry about the phone....

I'd feed you that chocolate cake, just promise to thoroughly enjoy it for me ( diabetic ).


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
11/2/2014 9:57 pm

I am glad to hear you had him put away. You are a "superwoman" for being an advocate! You know first hand how to help them! I like this saying:
Men are the ones who are given strength by God to protect women. If a man hurts a woman, he is not considered a man, but a coward!
You wouldn't have to fight for the last piece of chocolate cake....I'd make you one that was all yours!


littlejohnson616 64M
433 posts
11/3/2014 12:42 am

I thought the great majority of comments would be supportive, but I am surprised that they are up to almost 40 without a single dissent.

I have a question, an honest one, no snideness intended. Buni, I assume that your role as advocate involved some training. Were the actions you described here consistent with that training?

I used to work as a security guard. Dealing with angry people was part of the job. Giving emotional support to a battered woman is also something I've experienced. From those experiences, I have some thoughts.

In the situation described, I would alert hospital security to the man in the parking lot. They could dispatch an officer to discuss the situation with him. Whether to do that would be their decision.

Regarding the texts, I would ask the lady to give me her phone. If she declined, I would inquire, gently, into why she felt compelled to read the texts that were upsetting her.

What if I am the person approaching the man in the car, leaving aside whether I do it as an advocate or a security officer?

I would speak to him courteously. I would ask if he wanted to visit a patient, let him vent if he wants, and then tell him that the patient will not be available until the next day.

My ultimate objective is to persuade him to leave the premises. In the meantime I want to calm him and keep him calm. I would not say or do anything to provoke him or to escalate the situation.

Ideally he will go home, and the police will find and arrest him there. If he goes elsewhere, it's likely to be place with fewer innocent bystanders than the hospital.

Confronting and escalating might feel heroic, but I don't think it is the responsible choice.


mike03561 68M
5 posts
11/3/2014 5:17 am

You nasty lady, the poor guy was probably worried about when she was going to be let out to make his dinner, and get him a beer

On the serious side well done. Shame you couldn't have stuffed the phone where the sun doesn't shine - sideways it hurts more and is harder to remove.


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
11/3/2014 7:13 am

There are definitely some things worth getting arrested for.


Tragic that this shit still happens, with as much "education" as there is about it, and as many advocates, prior victims, police, community services available to victims.

Thanks for all you do!


FreddiesFling 61M
3707 posts
11/3/2014 9:08 am

Bravo! For throwing his phone across the parking lot but mostly for setting an example that he can be stopped by standing up to him and letting her know it!

You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!


MyNameIsKay 62F  
11887 posts
11/3/2014 6:20 pm

I would fight for my daughters...and have torn into a few arrogant idiots that think they know what it means for them to grow up like they do with only one parent...or should I say only one parent that cares. (Trust me...I felt redeemed when the court mediator sided with me...)

And you are fabulous!

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oldirtybacchus 103M
9536 posts
11/5/2014 7:17 am

You've got balls BuniBalls! I half want to say be more careful while the rest of me applauds your superhero ways! Kind of inspiring to be honest

All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus


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