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burblesback07 42M
531 posts
12/21/2014 11:05 pm

Really interesting read but I have to argue with the blanket generalizations and male assumptions made in the article.
Trying to offer a definitive, " do's and don'ts " list to men as the secret to sexual success, on any level other than a personal one, relating only to " YOU ", and " YOUR " preferences on how you enjoy your partners to engage in and behave during sex, is just ludicrous !

Sex and sexuality is a vast collection of individual preferences and practices too broad to categorize into right and wrong for all. Sex incorporates too great a spectrum of the weird and the wonderful for any one person to offer all men standardized advice about all women ?
Its like jamming a square peg into a round hole.

Your sexual extacy, could be the next persons sexual nightmare or as defined in the article, The Connection and "Whole Ride" for one versus the Robotic Porn-like Fucking of Orifices for another. Each of these practices can be held in the same high regard as the other, depending on the individuals "sexual preferences" !

Lack of decent sex education and the influence of porn cannot be blamed for a guy not being sexually well rounded, to blame for his own sexual ignorance, or responsible for him being incapable of tailoring his performance to fit best suit his partners desires and preferences This is quite plainly, the practice of the Sexually Selfish, those who took nothing from their previous sexual encounters in life to improve future ones.


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
12/22/2014 12:50 am

Well said and I like the symphony metaphor very much, you need the
whole orchestra to be in tune in order to fully enjoy the music.


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