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Vague and Ambiguous adult relationships. So much less confusing to just straight out ask. It does sound like he wants mutual exclusivity.
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My take is that he is expecting you to WANT to date anyone else, not that he is forbidding it really. You've got a good thing going, and if the quantity you're getting is acceptable for you, give exclusivity a try (but with a loophole for visiting bloggers of course!!  ).Gambling, for Two, on HNW Items or Memories Which Works for You Life in Tornado Alley [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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It's all about open communication...talk about it and if it works then good, if not, no worries  Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!! 
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I hate being made to be exclusive. I am in this for me, and for me only. If partner 1 is unavailable for an extended period, I want options. If someone insists I be exclusive, they better be available whenever I want them. I made this mistake a few years ago, and he started to take longer and longer to contact me between meetings. Never again. Now I usually tell them I will be theirs until such time as I feel they are not paying me the attention I want, then I will start looking for supplements! lol But, it is up to you what you ask or tell him. Are you prepared to even be exclusive with him? And find out why he wants it, if that is indeed what he wants. Maybe his reasoning doesn't line up with yours on that.
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exclusivity is challenging in the sense you paint it,but desirable regarding the freedom from concerns about STDs. many women speak of wanting "options" but expect a man to remain exclusive for them. what's that all about??
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