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How we got to where we are
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How we got to where we are Multiple partners = multiple fun times. Having had the experiences we have had recently we can reflect a little. We have narrowed down what we want, what we are willing to conpromise on and what does not work for us. We understand better now that we have had sex with another couple, and as well with some others that there are things we enjoy besides each other.  First off from here on I do have to say that describing our sexual escapades with other people here is not going to happen. Bambee and I have no problem sharing ourselves with you but we will not bring others to this little party. By the way web cam should be up by December 12th. So when we get it up and running we will be sharing more of us. So with that out of the way let us explore a little. Our new experiences have definitely made our sex lives better. As with anything in marriage however the key was constant communication. After the last couple of weeks I am definitely enjoying Bambee's company more and more. Trust plays a big role in this lifestyle as many of you are aware. We do not knowingly play with people who are married but their partner does not know, however we suspect that we have unknowingly done so. This frustrates us. If you are married and stepping out be honest. We are not here to judge but we do not want to be part of that drama. Ok to the skinny of where I was heading. We are now very liberated sexually but it was not always so. For a long time Bambee had no sex drive. By long time I mean several years. Frustrated and agonized by the deflation to myself I felt that I was not sexy to her anymore. Women here is a key to making it work. Talk, Guys you too. We did. We fought we argued we had blank sex. Her way of "making it up" to me. The problem is with no sex drive it was hard to enjoy anything. Now most of the guys that Bambee chats with are in this similar situation which is why I am writing this. If Bambee's sex drive still was not back we would be in the same boat you are in. The only difference is I was on this site by myself 2 years ago until recently when we made our couple profile. How that came about was simple: I TALKED TO HER AND EXPLAINED HOW I WAS FEELING ABOUT US NOT BEING ABLE TO HAVE THE PASSIONATE SEX WE ONCE HAD....!!!!! This brings me to the simple point: Man or woman if you are stepping out on your spouse please try and talk to them. Doing this is only going to bring heartache. I do feel for you I really do. Having watched people around us divorce and family members that have gone through it. If the love is gone end it. But if you are still in love it does take work and playing here is not going to help. Well that is my 2 cents worth. We have been blessed that we made it through together through hard work and a love that seems to go on forever. She will always be the light of my life. Hope I can share it with some more of you. Take care and talk to you again sometime. |
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Yes all good points
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