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humorlife 56M  
4929 posts
1/26/2016 4:23 am


“Friends with Benefits” was the blogosphere’s top choice for the upcoming virtual symposium’s topic. “Fetishes” was once again a bridesmaid but not a bride, and “Vocabulary” made a strong showing and will definitely be an option offered again soon!

For those new to the virtual symposium: In short, it’s a simultaneous act of blogging. Here’s how it works: Anybody with a blog on this site is welcome to join in. All choosing to participate will create something – an essay, a cartoon, an erotic story, a memoir, a series of one-line aphorisms, an image collage, a photo montage, a poem, or anything else – relating to “International Intrigue.” At a pre-arranged time and date (see below) all participants post their contributions.

Want a better sense of how it works – or just some good reads? Here’s a link to the participants’ list from the fifteenth symposium: Participants List For The Fifteenth Virtual Symposium Black And White

Feel free to take the basic idea of “Friends with Benefits” and stretch it to as wild an interpretation as you like -- the post should reflect you! The last thing we need is a dozen monotonous texts on the same topic. Anything goes, as long as there is a trace of the original idea in the post.

On the morning of January 31, all participants will post their creations. Please, please, post ‘em to your own blogs early: I do want to link to them in a central post here, but I don’t want to be stapled to my desk all day.

I'll be responsible for posting links to your blogs here – I want to make this as effortless for participants as possible! Once you’ve posted, leave a note in the comments section here so I know to link to your submission. I will, of course, post latecomers… people do check back to see whether new participants have joined the symposium. But after the morning of January 31, I may not be updating the list as obsessively, especially if I’m waiting at the “Returns” line at my local department store.

As for contributions themselves: The idea is to create something new, as opposed to using posts to respond to other posts (although the comments section will, of course, remain fair game). Leave a note in the blog comments, and I’ll use a post on this blog that day to link to all contributions.

First suggestion: Participants may want to refer to either the virtual symposium or the topic itself in their headline. Not a requirement – there are no requirements, save for originality and participation – but a suggestion which will let the wide blog community know what we’re doing.

Second suggestion: Consider using one of the larger sizes, which can be found in the box when inputting a post. I find the much larger sizes offputting and hard to read… but size 2, to my mind, balances having to squint and the vertigo-inducing larger sizes. (This post has been posted in size 2, for what it’s worth…) Of course, there’s always the trick of holding down the control button and hitting either the + or – keys, which for most websites serves to enlarge or shrink copy and images.

This is not a contest. No souvenir mugs will be sent, nor ribbons awarded. The idea here is for those interested to, on a single day, offer an interpretation of a single topic for the sheer fun of it.

By all means, encourage other bloggers to participate – and to let me know they’re doing so through this post, so on the morning of January 31 I can link to their posts. Oh, and please consider this an invitation – if not a request – to the symposium both on your own blogs, and in individual requests to bloggers whom you’d like to see represented. The more the merrier, right? There are some folks with very distinct voices on this site who aren’t yet participating – let’s bring ‘em in and make ‘em one of us, one of us, one of us!

Remember, of course, to keep things in your voice!

Every symposium, there are a few newbies who contribute posts, and don’t let me know about their contributions (I catch some by watching the “recent posts” feed, but that’s hit or miss). So… once you post, please leave me a note on the master list post, or here! (I get messages about the symposium which are attached to the blog a little faster than the ones which are emailed to me.)

Can’t wait to see the results!

the symposium, the symposium, the symposium... the viewers you bring in may be your own. Can't get more (verbally) naked than that...

Final note: When the page with all the contributors goes live, please consider adding the link to your post, even if the contribution has already gone live. Doing so allows people to readily access all the other offerings… which is, after all, one of the purposes of this exercise.


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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
1/26/2016 5:02 am

HL,
Well ok then. I guess this is what we will write about.
Can you tell I'm less than ecstatic?
But I will persevere! I'm sure everyone who voted on it will be more than enthusiastic and I will get swept along with it...
I think what happens when a topic comes along that we have no idea what to write on, we panic and think, "everyone else will have an absolutely shiny post and mine will suck!" Yet somehow, I have always been a wee bit proud of myself, that I managed to pull an adequate post together.

So thank you, Humor, and Blogospehere, for making me get out of my comfort zone and write!
Sincerely,
Kitkat

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Annie_34 65T
5945 posts
1/26/2016 5:20 am

Bonjour Humorlife
Je ne comprends pas vraiment se que veut dire ( Amis avec des bénéfices )
Peux tu m'en dire plus ? Merci
♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥


Hello Humorlife
I do not really understand is what does ( Friends with Benefits ).
Can you tell me more ? Thank you
♥ Kisses ♥ Annie ♥


Notre vie est un voyage-♦-Dans l'hiver et dans la nuit
Nous cherchons notre passage-♦-Dans le ciel où rien ne luit .

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/26/2016 5:35 am

I've now put my thinking cap on for Sunday's symposium!


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:50 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    HL,
    Well ok then. I guess this is what we will write about.
    Can you tell I'm less than ecstatic?
    But I will persevere! I'm sure everyone who voted on it will be more than enthusiastic and I will get swept along with it...
    I think what happens when a topic comes along that we have no idea what to write on, we panic and think, "everyone else will have an absolutely shiny post and mine will suck!" Yet somehow, I have always been a wee bit proud of myself, that I managed to pull an adequate post together.

    So thank you, Humor, and Blogospehere, for making me get out of my comfort zone and write!
    Sincerely,
    Kitkat
Couldn't have put it better myself, Kitkat... looking forward to seeing what you come up with!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:51 am

    Quoting  :

*Laughing* Wouldn't "fetishes" have been redundant for you? can't wait to see what's been percolating!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:54 am

Hello, Annie:

As with every symposium, the phrase means whatever you want it to mean! That said, the common definition is someone with whom you have a sexual relationship, but something less than a full romantic relationship.

But of course, I do not expect anything common from symposium participants...

Bonjour Annie:

Comme à chaque colloque, l'expression signifie tout ce que vous voulez qu'il signifie! Cela dit, la définition commune est quelqu'un avec qui vous avez une relation sexuelle, mais quelque chose de moins qu'une relation romantique pleine.

Mais bien sûr, je ne pense pas que quoi que ce soit de la commune les participants au symposium ...

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:55 am

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    Whoa, whoa, whoa.."Friends With Benefits"???? I thought FWB meant "Frying With Butter"!!! I had this whole margarine vs butter thing ready to go.
Disappointing, isn't it? I was all set to write about "flinging with baboons" until someone straightened me out...

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:56 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I've now put my thinking cap on for Sunday's symposium!
Fantastic! But do you have the coat and shoes to match?

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 6:15 am

    Quoting  :

Every time I see a comment about getting bloggers out of their creative comfort zones, I get a tiny little golden glow in my heart.

This is because, at my core, I am a sadist.

Looking forward to seeing what you come up with!

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EWGuy 64T
563 posts
1/26/2016 6:25 am

Please keep me in your loop. I will start now, Oh this could be very naughty.


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 6:29 am

    Quoting EWGuy:
    Please keep me in your loop. I will start now, Oh this could be very naughty.
Naughty is encouraged! I look forward to reading your contribution on January 31... welcome to the symposium!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 7:44 am

    Quoting  :

Or whatever other vocabulary words come to mind...

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 7:45 am

No! No fun permitted in the symposium! Only work and suffering!

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kauldronT0017 43M
178 posts
1/26/2016 11:31 am

there are a number of ways to approach this topic. I think I might take a metaphoric or analytical approach.


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 11:39 am

    Quoting  :

Heh... I may give the topic a rest next month -- I've run it twice, and I want to repeat the runner-up from this month -- but you'll see it again...

And... you KNOW how I feel about your smart, literate explorations...

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 11:40 am

    Quoting kauldronT0017:
    there are a number of ways to approach this topic. I think I might take a metaphoric or analytical approach.
We have a few contributors who take evil glee in warping the topic almost beyond recognition. I look forward to seeing what you come up with on Jan 31... and again, welcome aboard!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 12:04 pm

    Quoting  :

Psst... if you can keep a secret, I have inside information that the chances of seeing "vocabulary" offered again next month are pretty good.

And... I'm always in favor of playing with FWB. Please let us know what we can do to move that extra 25 percent.

Welcome to the virtual symposium, whether as a ready, commenter, or contributor!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 12:36 pm

    Quoting  :

Ah, but then it wouldn't be YOUR definition, would it?]

Looking forward to seeing what you come up with!

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/26/2016 3:47 pm

I have to get thinking on this one.. hugssssssss V See you soon!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
1/26/2016 5:19 pm

This stuff should be interesting to read. There must be at least ten thousand different takes on what it is, and every one of them ready to slay anyone who disagrees! I'm not quite sure whether to tell the truth in my own post, and say what I have in mind, or make something up. Telling the truth can be a dangerous practice.

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:31 pm

Heh heh heh... you know that comment puts extra pressure on you, doesn't it?

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:31 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    I have to get thinking on this one.. hugssssssss V See you soon!
You 'n' me both!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/26/2016 5:35 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    This stuff should be interesting to read. There must be at least ten thousand different takes on what it is, and every one of them ready to slay anyone who disagrees! I'm not quite sure whether to tell the truth in my own post, and say what I have in mind, or make something up. Telling the truth can be a dangerous practice.
As Harry Truman said when a reporter urged him to "Give 'em hell!":

"I don't give them Hell. I just tell the truth about them and they think it's Hell."

I have no doubt that, truthful or not, what the two of you write (hint, hint!) will be great fun!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/27/2016 9:15 am

    Quoting  :

Would you consider working in another medium? Photo essay? Found images? A play, a la Keithcancook?

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ReBar100 57M
4167 posts
1/29/2016 2:11 pm

I gave it a shot
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