My lady friend has this fantasy that won't go away (I owe her one, since mine was to have a threesome with her and her best friend). She wants me to pretend I am service tech (they actually need help with something I do professionally), go to her house, and have sex with her while her husband is in the house.

She said her husband will be watching the game in the basement on Monday night, and will never come upstairs. The dare gives her a thrill, but gives me the chill.

I figure the most I would do (IF I go) would be making out and maybe a bj. But I am still apprehensive, not only for horrible complications if caught, but also morally ill at ease with doing something like this in another man's house.

She once jokingly said, if not you, I will find someone else.. But I think she would actually do it.

Here is what I am thinking... please help me decide!

Folks, this one lady friend of mine does really excite me anymore. The is a pillow queen.. no passion or reaction. She is at the point now where she just wants to undress (quickly) and have sex.

We talked a lot about this situation. I asked her point blank if I am not doing enough, or if the ambiance is not to her liking, or if I am not a good kisser, or don't penetrate her deep enough, or... you get the idea..

Well, I decided tonight that I better move on and focus on more passionate and enjoyable relationships.

My ask is; how should I tell her without hurting her in any way shape or form?