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I love giving oral sex. I've stopped seeing women because they don't like to receive it. I am a giver. I love feeling a girl get turned on as I eat her. I love bending a girl over, pulling down her panties, and eating her ass and pussy from behind. Don't get me wrong; I love blow jobs. But I've never broken up with anyone because of a lack of them. Pleasuring the woman is my main priority. Good post. Hell, all of them are good.
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I think I may be slightly unusual for a man in that a blowjob doesn't do much for me, though a little lick does! 
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I agree that giving a man oral sex is monumental: you have to do it. And I don't mind, because I love doing it. HOWEVER, the man HAS to be willing to give it back, CORRECTLY, and most of all, be patient in doing it LONG ENOUGH to make the woman cum. Period.
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I have not and will not. They is more to a relationship than oral sex. I know this because my partner does not enjoy it, giving or getting. I was in love with her long before I could expect to get my dick sucked. Do I miss it? Hell yes but I get by!
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I have been lucky and never had a partner who didn't like sucking my cock.I guess If they gave a bad bj but were willing to learn would be ok.
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...and it is not difficult to understand. The taste like the smell, are the deepest instincts. what makes you distinguish the good from the bad, trust or mistrust Be suspicious of who does not accept or give orality. We could open a debate about this
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Interesting point raised Sandra. But surely lousy BJ shouldn't be a deal-breaker??? There must be a way to guide a woman into performing in a way that works for the man? He doesn't have to say, 'no, no that way, that's rubbish'. He can surely guide his cock or her head gently, as well as communicate as the sensations that truly pleasure him. If she doesn't want to respond to that, that's another matter. I think for those women who hate it, it may be down to not liking cum in their mouth and guys deliberately ignoring that. Or it may be psychological, and not liking cock in the mouth, or even just hating the sense of subjugation by men who want to stand, looking down on her on her knees. That, I can at least understand
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Thank you for posting this. It is a nice reminder of the joy that can come from my lips.
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Hi Sandy. Interesting. You say "relationship". I dont think that I would get to that point if the sex was not good, including BJs. That meeting of the minds and compatibility includes sexual compatibility. I am saying that a woman who did not give blow jobs would not be a girl for me. I would know that long before it got to the relationship stage. I find that the type of woman that I am attracted to gives blow jobs and is sexually adventurous. The bad blow job thing? Not too sure about that. pretty much all the bjs I have had were good. Of course, some were great. I know that many men actually prefer blow jobs to penetration. So I hear anyway. I am not one of those. Oral is fine and enjoyable to receive, but giving is great. I am a pleaser. If a women does not give blow jobs, it is a give away of of her attitude toward sex. She is not into it. pretty simple. She is not for me. I also know that guys get hung up on a girl who swallows. They just love this. I have no idea why they care where the cum goes, as long as they cum. On that subject, I seldom get off when getting blown. Maybe it is just hard for me to do so. Maybe it is just mental, and I feel some type of guilt or something that I cant put my finger on. But if I do cum, I dont care if she swallows...... Also, what is up with the sucking thing? I dont think suction needs to happen. Just lips and tongue do a great job. I cant say that suction adds anything to the experience, yet it is probably the hardest part for the girl to keep doing. They focus on the suction and forget the tongue. Guys focus on that suction also. I think that there is so much more she can do with her tongue and lips. Look at porn. They have to get it all the way in and go up and down sucking hard. i dont get it. I want a woman who makes love to my little pecker. Give it love and affection, not a vacuuming. Then there are the guys who want deep throat. OMG, who the hell cares. I think it is a domination thing. "I am gonna get this all the way down her throat and choke the bitch" Really? come on... Sure I have a shorter one, that can fit all the way in sometimes. I dont want to choke my girl. I also hate that sound when she chokes. Ever hear that sound in porno? Yuch, Yuck!!! Makes me want to puke. Oral sex is a basic part of sex, simple. If someone does not do it, then they have no interest in having good sex. end of story. I went camping all last week so I missed your posts, sorry. Funny, as soon as I get into a state park, the signal goes away. More incentive to visit, I think. Gives new meaning to "nature". How is the wee one? BTW, since the weight loss surgery, wife has lost from 1/4 to 1/2 a pound a day! she is down 75 pounds. We are both the same weight now. kisses
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To me it's not a reason for a break up. I've had those time when I've told my partner to give it up, its not going to work. I like bjs but if they don't know how to do it, they might as well not try.
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If the lady don't enjoy giving head then don't do it.... what a disappointment though.... My ex always said she loved giving, it was a once a year event... But fuck, so was sex so maybe she did...  I'm not bitter though Mark xxx
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I did date a girl who wouldn't let me perform oral on her.She said she didn't want someone looking at her pussy that close.Which was a bummer for me because its one of my favorites.But she did oral on me,but never felt like we connected
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I take all your points there. I was just trying to rationalise from a female perspective why some (many?) don't enjoy, or perform it under sufferance. I guess we all have our foibles, sexual and otherwise! But I think a relationship without mutual oral pleasure would be majorly deficient. Others may cope with it better!
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I love to give as well as receive oral. So wonderful to explor and make love to the whole body.
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Very true and it didn't last long relationship wise.And also true to the enjoy every part of a partners body.( you may never know what part they find erogenous ) Also so very true about vice versa especially the vice 
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Some good points being made here, but as for asking upfront, surely that takes so much pleasure and anticipation, the sheer thrill, out of the equation? Not sure what's wrong with a good old-fashioned wooing and flirting And surely it's a two-pronged process? Getting to find out about sexual compatibility, as well as personality/character chemistry
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For me it all about oral sex.. Love it! Giving and receiving is best way to be. hugsssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Well I personally have mixed feelings about receiving oral but could definitely understand breaking up over it. If I am dealing with somebody who wants me to give oral sex to them then receiving it from them at the very least better be an option I am very much a tick for tack guy, while I may not expect/need the favor returned every single time I do something for somebody the possibility of it being returned is mandatory. For me the act of pleasing a woman orally is a pleasure in and of itself for me so I will not always request receiving it back as a result. Personally though I've never been crazy about receiving oral sex. I mean while it does feel good having somebody mouth on my penis I just never found it mind-blowing. I suppose my early childhood experiences with receiving it and not really knowing what was going it has plenty to do with it. In any case I've always followed a belief about not asking other people for something you aren't willing to give. so far it has worked well for me from oral sex, penetration sex, hugs, kisses, and pretty much any and every other forms of physical contact and everything else in life.
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Yes, I do agree that a woman who doesn't like oral will get a pass from me. Ilove oral and I love nibbling on her pussy lips! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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It pretty much depends on the relationship. If it's just for sex then oral sex would be important. But the fact is I have had no relationships that were just for sex. With that in mind I would have to say in relationships with friends or more serious relationships oral sex while it's nice would have to be pretty far down the list of priorities
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Not yet! But it's only been 23 years! Lmao! One day though! Will be thinking of you as I fly into and out of hotlanta tomorrow! Hope I am not too hard in my seat then! Lol! xoxo sweetheart
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The answer to that question is yes. She loved me going down on her, but didn't really enjoy the idea of sucking my cock in return or at the same time "69". It was very frustrating. So, it ended. I can so relate to the importance of performing well with oral sex. It's a very necessary part of the overall sexual life. Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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